https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/Katkapanoy<\/a> (20 Septembriou 9.59)<\/p>\nCel\u00fd den mi to ne\u0161lo z hlavy. Jak m\u016f\u017eou d\u011bti p\u0159estat mluvit s rodi\u010di. Copak nevid\u00ed jak jsou ne\u0161\u0165astn\u00ed? A pak jsem se zarazila a zaplavilo m\u011b to jako vlna… T\u00e1ta mi zem\u0159el hodn\u011b mlad\u00fd. J\u00e1 byla v\u017edy takov\u00e1 tat\u00ednkova hol\u010di\u010dka a i kdy\u017e m\u011bl r\u016fzn\u00e9 \u017eivotn\u00ed eskap\u00e1dy, v\u017edy jsem ho omlouvala a st\u00e1la na jeho stran\u011b. Te\u010f, po t\u00e9m\u011b\u0159 p\u011btadvaceti letech vid\u00edm, jak moc jsem t\u00edm ubli\u017eovala mamince. Ale ka\u017ed\u00e1 m\u00e1ma d\u011bl\u00e1 pro d\u011bti to nej, stejn\u011b jako ta na\u0161e a ti\u0161e trp\u011bla tat\u00ednkovi jeho h\u0159\u00edchy i moji sobeckost. Kdy\u017e t\u00e1ta zem\u0159el, byl to obrovsk\u00fd \u0161ok a i po tolika letech mi neskute\u010dn\u011b chyb\u00ed. Maminka nejd\u0159\u00edv o nov\u00e9m vztahu necht\u011bla ani sly\u0161et, ale nakonec se po letech sezn\u00e1mila s p\u00e1nem, kter\u00fd j\u00ed mohl b\u00fdt oporou. Jen\u017ee j\u00e1 na prahu dosp\u011blosti, za\u010dala d\u011blat v\u0161e proto, aby mi t\u00e1tu nenahradil ani omylem. Co\u017e nejsp\u00ed\u0161 m\u00e1ma nem\u011bla ani v \u00famyslu. Roze\u0161li se po p\u00e1r letech, j\u00e1 u\u017e ani nebydlela doma, ale rozmazlen\u00fd sobe\u010dek ve m\u011b plesal radost\u00ed. Bu\u010f to bylo moje sobectv\u00ed, m\u00e1min strach z nov\u00e9ho vztahu nebo n\u011bco jin\u00e9ho, netu\u0161\u00edm. Ale te\u010f je maminka sama a j\u00e1 jsem p\u0159es dva tis\u00edce kilometr\u016f daleko. Star\u00e1 se o n\u00ed br\u00e1cha, pom\u016f\u017ee s n\u00e1kupem, zajde \u010dasto na kus \u0159e\u010di a kafe s b\u00e1bovku… A j\u00e1 si sypu popel na hlavu. Co n\u00e1m d\u00e1v\u00e1 ten pocit moci, \u0159\u00eddit \u017eivoty druh\u00fdch? Jak\u00fdm pr\u00e1vem rozhodujeme o \u0161t\u011bst\u00ed jin\u00fdch? Pro\u010d ubli\u017eujeme zrovna sv\u00fdm nejbli\u017e\u0161\u00edm? Strach? L\u00e1ska? Sobectv\u00ed? Nev\u00edm…<\/em><\/p>\n\u00a0<\/em><\/p>\nJe to opravdu sobectv\u00ed? Za\u010dnu zkraje:<\/p>\n
Kdy\u017e jsme v\u00a0b\u0159\u00ed\u0161ku m\u00e1my, obklopuje n\u00e1s. Ona je cel\u00fd n\u00e1\u0161 sv\u011bt.\u00a0 M<\/strong>\u03ae\u03c4\u03b7\u03c1<\/strong> (matka) a \u03bc\u03ae\u03c4\u03c1\u03b1<\/strong>\u00a0 (d\u011bloha) jsou t\u00e9m\u011b\u0159 synonyma… Jsme uvnit\u0159 jej\u00edho t\u011bla a \u017eijeme z\u00a0n\u00ed<\/strong>. Bereme z\u00a0jej\u00edho t\u011bla \u017eiviny tak, jak to pot\u0159ebujeme, \u010dasto i na jej\u00ed \u00fakor. Je to z\u00e1kon p\u0159\u00edrody. D\u00edt\u011b dost\u00e1v\u00e1 p\u0159ednostn\u011b v\u0161e tak, aby se co nejl\u00e9pe vyvinulo. Sama matka to nem\u016f\u017ee ovlivnit, i kdyby si to p\u0159\u00e1la. A pozd\u011bji, kdy\u017e se d\u011b\u0165\u00e1tko narod\u00ed \u00a0a m\u00e1ma ho koj\u00ed, zase mu ze sebe poskytuje to nejlep\u0161\u00ed, i kdyby j\u00ed m\u011bly za\u010d\u00edt padat vlasy a p\u0159estat r\u016fst nehty… Takhle to v\u00a0p\u0159\u00edrod\u011b chod\u00ed. \u017divot s\u00e1m to tak chce, aby se mohl udr\u017eet a rozvinout.<\/p>\nJen\u017ee lidsk\u00e1 ml\u00e1\u010fata \u00a0(na rozd\u00edl od ostatn\u00edch \u017eivo\u010dich\u016f, kte\u0159\u00ed se od rodi\u010d\u016f odpout\u00e1vaj\u00ed, kdy\u017e dosp\u011bj\u00ed) si nad\u00e1le ve vztahu k\u00a0rodi\u010d\u016fm udr\u017euj\u00ed postoj d\u00edt\u011bte. \u010casto vy\u017eaduj\u00ed v\u00fd\u017eivu<\/strong> ve form\u011b podpory a pozornosti, i kdy\u017e j\u00ed u\u017e v podstat\u011b nepot\u0159ebuj\u00ed. Podv\u011bdom\u011b o\u010dek\u00e1vaj\u00ed, \u017ee matka bude v\u017edy po ruce, k dispozici, \u017ee se\u00a0 bude \u201eob\u011btovat v\u011b\u010dn\u011b\u201c…<\/p>\nPro\u010d? Mal\u00e9 d\u00edt\u011b vn\u00edm\u00e1 svou matku jako zdroj.<\/strong> Pot\u0159ebuje ji k napln\u011bn\u00ed sv\u00fdch pot\u0159eb a zpravidla ji v\u016fbec nevn\u00edm\u00e1 jako nez\u00e1vislou lidskou bytost. Vn\u00edm\u00e1 ji jenom jako m\u00e1mu<\/strong>. Nen\u00ed schopno pochopit, \u017ee ona m\u00e1 sebe, sv\u016fj \u017eivot p\u0159ed t\u011bhotenstv\u00edm a sv\u016fj \u017eivot mimo mate\u0159skou roli. To neznamen\u00e1, \u017ee je d\u00edt\u011b sobeck\u00e9<\/em> ve smyslu nep\u0159ej\u00edc\u00ed. V\u016fbec ne. D\u00edt\u011b miluje svou matku. Ale je egocentrick\u00e9, vn\u00edm\u00e1 sebe sama jako st\u0159ed ve\u0161ker\u00e9ho \u017eivota. A je to tak spr\u00e1vn\u011b. Jinak by si nemohlo vytvo\u0159it vlastn\u00ed osobnost.<\/p>\nTo, \u017ee d\u00edt\u011b bere, je \u00fapln\u011b v po\u0159\u00e1dku. Hor\u0161\u00ed je, kdy\u017e matka nem\u00e1 dost s\u00edly, zdrav\u00ed nebo v\u0159elosti, aby mohla d\u00e1vat. To se pak \u010dasto role vym\u011bn\u00ed a d\u00edt\u011b se st\u00e1v\u00e1 ochr\u00e1ncem sv\u00e9ho rodi\u010de. Ve skrytu du\u0161e tou\u017e\u00ed maminku zachr\u00e1nit, u\u010dinit ji \u0161\u0165astnou. Co\u017e je skoro v\u017edycky \u00fakol nesplniteln\u00fd… A tak se smyslem \u017eivota takov\u00e9ho \u010dlov\u011bka, kdy\u017e dosp\u011bje, st\u00e1v\u00e1 pomoc a slu\u017eba jin\u00fdm. Co\u017e nev\u00edm, do jak\u00e9 m\u00edry je p\u0159\u00edpad \u0158.\u0161<\/strong>., ale j\u00e1 bych o tom mohla vypr\u00e1v\u011bt…\u00a0 \ud83d\ude42<\/p>\nCo\u00a0 si po\u010d\u00edt s\u00a0takov\u00fdmi deficity z\u00a0d\u011btstv\u00ed? Jedn\u00edm z\u00a0nejd\u016fle\u017eit\u011bj\u0161\u00edch v\u00fdvojov\u00fdch krok\u016f dosp\u011bl\u00e9ho \u010dlov\u011bka je si p\u0159iznat svoji dosp\u011blost<\/strong>. P\u0159edev\u0161\u00edm ve vztahu k\u00a0rodi\u010d\u016fm. P\u0159iznat si svou s\u00edlu a p\u0159ijmout zodpov\u011bdnost za to d\u00e1t s\u00e1m sob\u011b v\u0161echno to, co pot\u0159ebuji. (L\u00e1sku, uzn\u00e1n\u00ed, ocen\u011bn\u00ed, pozornost, p\u00e9\u010di atd.) Dokonce i to, co mi nedok\u00e1zali d\u00e1t rodi\u010de. Proto\u017ee, koneckonc\u016f, dali to nejcenn\u011bj\u0161\u00ed – \u017eivot. \u0160anci \u017e\u00edt. A ten \u017eivot je t\u0159eba vz\u00edt, takov\u00fd jak\u00fd je a otev\u0159\u00edt se mu. Neb\u00e1t se ho. Nevymlouvat se na to, co nebylo. Pokusit se vytvo\u0159it to, po \u010dem tou\u017e\u00edm.<\/p>\nA dal\u0161\u00ed obrovsk\u00e1 v\u00fdzva, kter\u00e1 je stejn\u011b obt\u00ed\u017en\u00e1, jako se otev\u0159\u00edt \u017eivotu, je p\u0159ijmout\u00a0 nevyhnutelnost smrti. P\u0159estat se na mrtv\u00e9 zlobit za to, \u017ee um\u0159eli a sm\u00ed\u0159it se<\/strong> s\u00a0nimi. M\u00edt je v\u00a0srdci \u017eiv\u00e9 a nechat jejich st\u00edn, aby se rozplynul. Tak se uvoln\u00ed prostor pro dal\u0161\u00ed lidi, kte\u0159\u00ed mohou do rodiny vstoupit ne, aby n\u011bkoho nahradili, ale aby obohatili rodinu svou p\u0159\u00edtomnost\u00ed. Co\u017e je to, co \u0158.\u0161.<\/strong> v\u00a0dan\u00e9 dob\u011b nebyla schopn\u00e1 ud\u011blat. Bolest a hn\u011bv ze ztr\u00e1ty otce oto\u010dila proti m\u00e1m\u011b. Byl to obrann\u00fd mechanismus, aby mohla celou tu situaci zvl\u00e1dnout. Jinak to v\u00a0t\u00e9 dob\u011b ne\u0161lo. A je t\u0159eba si to odpustit.<\/p>\nJak m\u016f\u017eou d\u011bti p\u0159estat mluvit s rodi\u010di<\/em>? \u00a0<\/em>T\u0159eba\u017ee jsme u\u017e dosp\u011bl\u00ed, d\u00edt\u011b v\u00a0n\u00e1s<\/strong> se vzpouz\u00ed. K\u0159e\u010dovit\u011b se br\u00e1n\u00ed p\u0159iznat si, \u017ee u\u017e vyrostlo.\u00a0 \u017de m\u00e1ma nen\u00ed jeho, <\/strong>ale \u017ee pat\u0159\u00ed sama sob\u011b. \u017de u\u017e d\u00e1vno nen\u00ed ona zodpov\u011bdn\u00e1 za moje \u0161t\u011bst\u00ed<\/strong>, ale za sv\u00e9 vlastn\u00ed. A \u017ee jsem to j\u00e1, kdo m\u00e1 za \u00fakol ut\u011b\u0161it a usm\u011brnit to vystra\u0161en\u00e9, do sebe zahled\u011bn\u00e9, trucovit\u00e9 d\u00edt\u011b. Nenechat ho, aby trestalo rodi\u010de za to, \u017ee si cht\u011bj\u00ed \u017e\u00edt po sv\u00e9m.<\/p>\n\u201eJ\u00e1 si sypu popel na hlavu!\u201c\u00a0 <\/em>To\u00a0 je taky mechanismus… Kdy\u017e je \u010dlov\u011bk nastaven\u00fd na kritiku a p\u0159estane kritizovat rodi\u010de, tak sv\u016fj zdvihnut\u00fd ukazov\u00e1\u010dek nam\u00ed\u0159\u00ed s\u00e1m na sebe. Tady je odpov\u011b\u010f snadn\u00e1. P\u0159estat kritizovat<\/strong>. Je p\u0159irozen\u00e9, \u017ee d\u00edt\u011b chce m\u00e1mu pro sebe a nechce nechat ciz\u00edho chlapa nastoupit na m\u00edsto t\u00e1ty. A zrovna tak je p\u0159irozen\u00e9, \u017ee ovdov\u011bl\u00e1 \u017eena tou\u017e\u00ed po l\u00e1skypln\u00e9 n\u00e1ru\u010di mu\u017ee. Je dobr\u00e9 to p\u0159ijmout tak, jak to je.<\/p>\nPro\u010d ubli\u017eujeme zrovna sv\u00fdm nejbli\u017e\u0161\u00edm?<\/em> Proto\u017ee trp\u00edme. Trp\u00edme spolu. Jenom se to u ka\u017ed\u00e9ho projevuje jinak. V rodin\u011b nejde, aby jeden trp\u011bl a druh\u00fdch se to nedotklo. V\u017edycky se to dot\u00fdk\u00e1 v\u0161ech, ale m\u00e1me r\u016fzn\u00e9 d\u016fmysln\u00e9 zp\u016fsoby, jak bolest zakr\u00fdvat, potla\u010dovat, pop\u0159\u00edpad\u011b ji prom\u011bnit v n\u011bco jin\u00e9ho, t\u0159eba v n\u011bjakou nemoc anebo ve vztek. T\u00edm, \u017ee n\u011bkomu ubl\u00ed\u017e\u00edme, ventilujeme svou bolest a na chvilku se n\u00e1m jakoby ulev\u00ed. Ale je to za vysokou cenu. \u017de v podstat\u011b bolest rozmno\u017eujeme a prodlu\u017eujeme. Tak\u017ee je lep\u0161\u00ed svou pozornost soust\u0159edit dovnit\u0159, na samotn\u00e9 zran\u011bn\u00ed, kter\u00e9 po\u0159\u00e1d bol\u00ed. A vyl\u00edzat se z n\u011bj.<\/p>\nCo n\u00e1m d\u00e1v\u00e1 ten pocit moci, \u0159\u00eddit \u017eivoty druh\u00fdch?<\/em> Pr\u00e1v\u011b ten d\u011btsk\u00fd pocit, \u017ee jenom pokud budou v\u011bci p\u0159esn\u011b tak, jak si je p\u0159ejeme a pot\u0159ebujeme, tak p\u0159e\u017eijeme a bude n\u00e1m dob\u0159e. (\u201eMatka mi mus\u00ed d\u00e1t naj\u00edst, a\u0165 se v\u00a0jej\u00edm \u017eivot\u011b d\u011bje cokoliv. A j\u00e1 budu \u0159v\u00e1t tak dlouho, dokud to neud\u011bl\u00e1…\u201c) To v\u0161echno proto, \u017ee je d\u00edt\u011b opravdu slab\u00e9 a neschopn\u00e9 bez ochrany a podpory rodi\u010d\u016f p\u0159e\u017e\u00edt. D\u00edt\u011b to v\u00ed. Proto se sna\u017e\u00ed naj\u00edt r\u016fzn\u00e9 zp\u016fsoby, jak si co nejl\u00edp pot\u0159ebnou p\u00e9\u010di a z\u00e1jem zajistit. N\u011bkter\u00e9 tak, \u017ee je poslu\u0161n\u00e9, po\u0159\u00e1d pom\u00e1h\u00e1 a dob\u0159e se u\u010d\u00ed. Jin\u00e9 t\u00edm, \u017ee zlob\u00ed. Zkou\u0161\u00edme to a osvoj\u00edme si zp\u016fsob, kter\u00fd na m\u00e1mu nejv\u00edc plat\u00ed. Kter\u00fd zajist\u00ed to, \u017ee se na n\u00e1s pod\u00edv\u00e1, obejme, p\u0159itul\u00ed, d\u00e1 n\u00e1m, co chceme. Nebo aspo\u0148 si n\u00e1s v\u0161imne a vynad\u00e1 n\u00e1m, kdy\u017e to s\u00a0n\u00ed nejde po dobr\u00e9m… Stejn\u011b tak i na t\u00e1tu. Chceme, aby n\u00e1s vid\u011bl a pochv\u00e1lil. Chceme se mu zal\u00edbit. Tou\u017e\u00edme, aby na n\u00e1s byl hrd\u00fd. A jak tak rosteme, p\u0159ich\u00e1z\u00edme si na nov\u00e9 a nov\u00e9 triky, kter\u00e9 na na\u0161e rodi\u010de plat\u00ed. Podv\u011bdom\u011b manipulujeme. Proto\u017ee se c\u00edt\u00edme slab\u00ed. Siln\u00fd \u010dlov\u011bk nem\u00e1 pot\u0159ebu s\u00a0nik\u00fdm manipulovat, proto\u017ee se dok\u00e1\u017ee spolehnout na sebe a svoje schopnosti. Naopak \u010dlov\u011bk, kter\u00fd si svou s\u00edlu odm\u00edt\u00e1 p\u0159ipustit, se chov\u00e1, jakoby snad jeho rodi\u010de m\u011bli tu moc (a povinnost) ho ochr\u00e1nit p\u0159ed zm\u011bnami, kter\u00e9 p\u0159in\u00e1\u0161\u00ed \u017eivot. P\u0159ed ztr\u00e1tou a bolest\u00ed. P\u0159ed smrt\u00ed. P\u0159ed t\u00edm, \u017ee roste a \u017eivot ho vtahuje do nov\u00fdch a nov\u00fdch dobrodru\u017estv\u00ed.<\/p>\n\u010casto tu hru hrajeme spole\u010dn\u011b. Do t\u00e9 m\u00edry, do kter\u00e9 rodi\u010de lp\u011bj\u00ed na sv\u00e9 rodi\u010dovsk\u00e9 roli a rozhoduj\u00ed za sv\u00e9 d\u011bti, do t\u00e9 m\u00edry od nich d\u011bti vy\u017eaduj\u00ed naprostou oddanost a sebeob\u011btov\u00e1n\u00ed.<\/p>\n
Jak\u00fdm pr\u00e1vem rozhodujeme o \u0161t\u011bst\u00ed jin\u00fdch?<\/em> Trouf\u00e1m si v\u011b\u0159it, \u017ee se i v\u00a0t\u00e9to v\u011bt\u011b skr\u00fdv\u00e1 kus \u201ed\u011btsk\u00e9ho egocentrismu\u201c. D\u00edt\u011b vn\u00edm\u00e1 tak n\u011bjak \u201eabsolutn\u011b\u201c. V\u0161echno nebo nic. \u201eZa v\u0161echno m\u016f\u017eu j\u00e1!\u201c<\/strong> Mo\u017en\u00e1, \u017ee matka sama rozhodla o sv\u00e9m \u0161t\u011bst\u00ed, a \u0158.\u0161.<\/strong> to ani netu\u0161\u00ed. Co\u017e takhle se j\u00ed zeptat, jak to bylo? Mo\u017en\u00e1, \u017ee by se objevily i dal\u0161\u00ed d\u016fvody, pro\u010d to v\u0161echno dopadlo, tak jak to dopadlo… A pak by se pocity viny kone\u010dn\u011b rozplynuly… \ud83d\ude42<\/p>\nJe jedin\u00e1 cesta: p\u0159ehoupnout se z d\u011btstv\u00ed do dosp\u011blosti. Jak p\u0159estat b\u00fdt d\u00edt\u011btem, kdy\u017e u\u017e jsme dosp\u011bl\u00ed? P\u0159evz\u00edt odpov\u011bdnost za sebe. D\u00edvat se dop\u0159edu, co chci v \u017eivot\u011b vytvo\u0159it a ne do minulosti, co mi \u017eivot odep\u0159el nebo rodi\u010de nedali.<\/p>\n
To, \u017ee se \u0158.\u0161.<\/strong> dok\u00e1\u017ee na sv\u00e9 pocity z minulosti pod\u00edvat \u201ezven\u010d\u00ed\u201d, \u017ee u\u017e se s nimi neztoto\u017e\u0148uje, ukazuje na to, \u017ee situaci vn\u00edm\u00e1 jako dosp\u011bl\u00e1. To je ta cesta. D\u00edvat se na sebe, na lidi okolo sebe, na svou minulost dne\u0161n\u00edma o\u010dima<\/strong>, ne t\u011bma d\u011btsk\u00fdma. D\u00edvat se na vlastn\u00ed d\u011bti o\u010dima matky te\u010f, ne o\u010dima matky mal\u00e9ho miminka, pro kter\u00e9 je t\u0159eba ob\u011btovat kus sebe. Vid\u011bt v d\u011btech jejich po\u0159\u00e1d se rozv\u00edjej\u00edc\u00ed, rostouc\u00ed schopnosti, s\u00edlu a samostatnost. P\u0159ipom\u00ednat\u00a0 jim jejich s\u00edlu, kdy\u017e na ni zapomenou. Vn\u00edmat to, co je te\u010f<\/strong>. Nehroutit se z toho co bylo, nebo z toho, co by se mohlo st\u00e1t. Nastavit si hranice a nedovolit ani sv\u00fdm vlastn\u00edm d\u011btem, ani sv\u00e9mu vnit\u0159n\u00edmu d\u00edt\u011bti, aby s n\u00e1mi manipulovaly.<\/p>\nMil\u00e9 \u0158eck\u00e9 \u0161t\u011bst\u00ed, <\/strong>m\u00e1me velk\u00e9 \u0161t\u011bst\u00ed, \u017ee t\u011b m\u00e1me! \ud83d\ude42<\/p>\nS l\u00e1skou Kalli<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
R\u00e1da sleduji p\u0159\u00edb\u011bhy \u017een, kter\u00e9 se odst\u011bhovaly do \u0158ecka a dok\u00e1zaly se tu s\u017e\u00edt. Naj\u00edt si sv\u00e9 m\u00edsto a provonit ho vlastn\u00ed v\u016fn\u00ed… Nen\u00ed to toti\u017e v\u016fbec snadn\u00e9 p\u0159izp\u016fsobit se nov\u00e9mu prost\u0159ed\u00ed a p\u0159itom neztratit s\u00e1m sebe. B\u00fdt schopen napl\u0148ovat sv\u00e9 pot\u0159eby a p\u0159itom se nesna\u017eit v\u0161echny okolo sebe p\u0159ed\u011blat. \u010casto se lidi st\u011bhuj\u00ed, aby […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":1440,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[17],"tags":[],"acf":[],"yoast_head":"\n
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