{"id":1833,"date":"2022-01-05T23:12:40","date_gmt":"2022-01-05T21:12:40","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/kalliopi-anthi.gr\/?p=1833"},"modified":"2022-01-05T23:32:24","modified_gmt":"2022-01-05T21:32:24","slug":"muj-nazor","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/kalliopi-anthi.gr\/cs\/muj-nazor\/","title":{"rendered":"M\u016fj n\u00e1zor"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u201eKalliopi, pro\u010d se na soci\u00e1ln\u00edch s\u00edt\u00edch nevyjad\u0159uje\u0161 k tomu, co se d\u011bje ohledn\u011b pandemie?“ zeptal se m\u011b…<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

Proto\u017ee chci sv\u00e9 my\u0161lenky a pocity sd\u00edlet s jednotliv\u00fdmi lidmi a ne je p\u0159edhodit davu. Chci t\u011b m\u00edt p\u0159ed sebou, abys ses mi d\u00edval do o\u010d\u00ed, a\u017e ti budu \u0159\u00edkat sv\u016fj n\u00e1zor. Abys vid\u011bl m\u016fj v\u00fdraz, abys c\u00edtil, co vyza\u0159uji, kdy\u017e mluv\u00edm. Snadn\u011bji mi tak porozum\u00ed\u0161.<\/p>\n

Chci se ti d\u00edvat do o\u010d\u00ed, vid\u011bt tv\u016fj v\u00fdraz a c\u00edtit, co vyza\u0159uje z tebe. Abych mohla zvolit vhodn\u00e1 slova. Formulovat sv\u016fj n\u00e1zor tak, aby se stal mostem mezi n\u00e1mi, a ne zd\u00ed.<\/p>\n

Nap\u0159ed bych se cht\u011bla dozv\u011bd\u011bt o my\u0161lenk\u00e1ch, kter\u00e9 t\u011b tr\u00e1p\u00ed, naslouchat pocit\u016fm, kter\u00e9 zaplavuj\u00ed tv\u00e9 srdce. Chci zn\u00e1t tv\u00e9 obavy a tak\u00e9 z\u00e1\u017eitky, kv\u016fli kter\u00fdm v\u011b\u0159\u00ed\u0161 tomu, \u010demu v\u011b\u0159\u00ed\u0161. Chci poznat p\u0159\u00ed\u010dinu tv\u00e9ho strachu. P\u0159\u00ed\u010dinu tv\u00e9ho hn\u011bvu.<\/p>\n

Chci ti b\u00fdt nabl\u00edzku, abys c\u00edtil, \u017ee si t\u011b v\u00e1\u017e\u00edm. \u017de respektuji tebe spolu s tv\u00fdmi postoji a zku\u0161enostmi.<\/p>\n

Je pro m\u011b mnohem d\u016fle\u017eit\u011bj\u0161\u00ed komunikovat ne\u017e jen p\u0159edn\u00e9st sv\u016fj n\u00e1zor bez n\u011bjak\u00e9ho smyslupln\u00e9ho dialogu.<\/p>\n

Chci se vyhnout nedorozum\u011bn\u00edm.<\/p>\n

Ani trochu m\u011b nebav\u00ed se zab\u00fdvat kritick\u00fdmi koment\u00e1\u0159i pod p\u0159\u00edsp\u011bvkem. Zapl\u00e9tat se do diskuz\u00ed, kde se ka\u017ed\u00fd sna\u017e\u00ed dok\u00e1zat, \u017ee m\u00e1 pravdu. J\u00e1 netou\u017e\u00edm m\u00edt pravdu. Tou\u017e\u00edm porozum\u011bt.<\/p>\n

Pokud t\u011b m\u00e1m n\u011bjak ovlivnit, chci ti nejprve porozum\u011bt.<\/p>\n

Stejn\u011b nem\u00e1m v \u00famyslu t\u011b n\u011bjak m\u011bnit nebo pou\u010dovat. Ale kdy\u017e bude\u0161 cht\u00edt, m\u016f\u017eu se s tebou pod\u011blit o sv\u00e9 my\u0161lenky, o to, \u010demu v\u011b\u0159\u00edm. Rovnocenn\u011b a na rovinu. A pokud t\u011b n\u011bco z m\u00fdch odpov\u011bd\u00ed nebo ot\u00e1zek zaujme, odnes si, co t\u011b pos\u00edl\u00ed.<\/p>\n

Pro m\u011b je p\u0159\u00edsp\u011bvek na soci\u00e1ln\u00edch s\u00edt\u00edch dost neosobn\u00ed. Rad\u0161i budu hledat zp\u011btnou vazbu ve tv\u00fdch o\u010d\u00edch. Sledovat v nich, jak na tebe m\u00e1 slova zap\u016fsobila. Jestli se mi povedlo vyj\u00e1d\u0159it se jasn\u011b. Jestli to, co \u0159\u00edk\u00e1m, m\u016f\u017ee n\u011bjak\u00fdm zp\u016fsobem pomoct. M\u016fj n\u00e1zor t\u011b mo\u017en\u00e1 uklidn\u00ed. Mo\u017en\u00e1 t\u011b inspiruje k zamy\u0161len\u00ed. Ale bude ti k n\u011b\u010demu u\u017eite\u010dn\u00fd? To je to, co m\u011b zaj\u00edm\u00e1.<\/p>\n

Ka\u017ed\u00fd z n\u00e1s si b\u011bhem sv\u00e9ho \u017eivota vytv\u00e1\u0159\u00ed r\u016fzn\u00e9 obrann\u00e9 mechanismy, jak se vypo\u0159\u00e1dat s nep\u0159\u00edjemn\u00fdmi situacemi. P\u0159edev\u0161\u00edm se strachem z bolesti a ze ztr\u00e1ty. Se strachem ze smrti. Mechanismy, kter\u00e9 n\u00e1s uklid\u0148uj\u00ed, proto\u017ee n\u00e1m d\u00e1vaj\u00ed pocit, \u017ee m\u00e1me v\u011bci pod kontrolou. Je te\u010f vhodn\u00e1 chv\u00edle na zbo\u0159en\u00ed t\u011bchto program\u016f? Jsme si v\u011bdomi sv\u00fdch schopnost\u00ed a sv\u00e9 s\u00edly pokra\u010dovat bez nich? M\u016f\u017ee m\u016fj osobn\u00ed pohled n\u011bjak\u00fdm zp\u016fsobem pomoci? Pokud ne, jak\u00fd by m\u011blo smysl o n\u011bm mluvit? Byla by to jen z\u00e1minka ke slovn\u00edm p\u016ftk\u00e1m, p\u0159il\u00edv\u00e1n\u00ed oleje do ohn\u011b negativity. A t\u00e9 u\u017e je v t\u011bchto n\u00e1ro\u010dn\u00fdch dnech i tak dost\u2026!<\/p>\n

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\u201eFajn,“ \u0159ekl. \u201eTe\u010f mluv\u00ed\u0161 jako terapeutka! Ale co si mysl\u00ed\u0161 ty, jako \u010dlov\u011bk?“<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

Pandemie se neboj\u00edm. To, co m\u011b d\u011bs\u00ed, je fanatismus a n\u00e1sil\u00ed.<\/p>\n

V\u016fbec mi nevad\u00ed, kdy\u017e m\u00e1 n\u011bkdo jin\u00fd n\u00e1zor ne\u017e j\u00e1, ale nesn\u00e1\u0161\u00edm jakoukoli formu vyd\u00edr\u00e1n\u00ed.<\/p>\n

V\u011b\u0159\u00edm, \u017ee by si m\u011bl ka\u017ed\u00fd p\u0159iznat, \u017ee m\u00e1 pr\u00e1vo<\/em> a z\u00e1rove\u0148 povinnost p\u0159evz\u00edt odpov\u011bdnost za svoje zdrav\u00ed<\/em>, jinak nikdy nedosp\u011bje. Z\u016fstane d\u00edt\u011btem, kter\u00e9 \u010dek\u00e1, a\u017e mu n\u011bkdo \u0159ekne, co m\u00e1 ud\u011blat. D\u00edt\u011btem, kter\u00e9 za svoje probl\u00e9my obvi\u0148uje sv\u00e9 okol\u00ed anebo v\u011b\u0159\u00ed, \u017ee ho n\u011bkdo ochr\u00e1n\u00ed p\u0159ed nemoc\u00ed i p\u0159ed \u017eivotem samotn\u00fdm.<\/p>\n

\u017divot jde d\u00e1l. I kdy\u017e se p\u0159ed n\u00edm schov\u00e1v\u00e1me zav\u0159en\u00ed doma, abychom se vyhnuli nebezpe\u010d\u00ed. I kdy\u017e v\u011b\u0159\u00edme, \u017ee m\u00e1me situaci pod kontrolou. A ani si nep\u0159ipou\u0161t\u00edme, \u017ee hlub\u0161\u00ed p\u0159\u00ed\u010diny t\u00e9to situace nezn\u00e1me. P\u0159ijde chv\u00edle, kdy pochop\u00edme… Skrze d\u016fsledky rozpozn\u00e1me p\u0159\u00ed\u010diny i z\u00e1m\u011br.<\/p>\n

\u017divot se ned\u00e1 koupit, i kdy\u017e se najdou lid\u00e9, kte\u0159\u00ed se sna\u017e\u00ed obchodovat se \u201ezdrav\u00edm“. A nespravedlnost se ned\u00e1 vymazat pomoc\u00ed odpustku nebo poslaneck\u00e9 imunity. Nic nepom\u016f\u017eou narychlo odhlasovan\u00e9 z\u00e1kony o nemo\u017enosti zpochybnit vl\u00e1dn\u00ed na\u0159\u00edzen\u00ed, o nemo\u017enosti odvol\u00e1n\u00ed se k soudu. Nespravedlnost z\u016fstane nespravedlnost\u00ed dokud nedojde k n\u00e1prav\u011b.<\/p>\n

\u017divot jde d\u00e1l prost\u0159ednictv\u00edm sv\u00fdch nov\u00fdch projev\u016f, prost\u0159ednictv\u00edm sv\u00fdch d\u011bt\u00ed. Skrze ml\u00e1\u010fata v\u0161ech tvor\u016f a skrze v\u00fdhonky rostlin. O ty je t\u0159eba pe\u010dovat stejn\u011b jako o lidsk\u00e9 d\u011bti. Cokoli \u0161kod\u00ed p\u0159\u00edrod\u011b, \u0161kod\u00ed i \u010dlov\u011bku. A\u0165 u\u017e si to uv\u011bdomuje nebo ne.<\/p>\n

A pokud po\u0161kozujeme du\u0161evn\u00ed a fyzick\u00e9 zdrav\u00ed na\u0161ich d\u011bt\u00ed, dost\u00e1v\u00e1me se do slep\u00e9 uli\u010dky. Jak\u00e1koli snaha ztr\u00e1c\u00ed smysl. V\u017edy\u0165 jak\u00fd smysl m\u00e1 p\u0159\u00edtomnost, kdy\u017e ni\u010d\u00ed budoucnost?<\/p>\n

Mnoho lid\u00ed si mysl\u00ed, \u017ee zn\u00e1 pravdu. J\u00e1 v\u00edm jist\u011b jen jedno: \u017ee obraz, kter\u00fd m\u00e1m o realit\u011b, je velmi mal\u00fd, je to jen nepatrn\u00e1 \u010d\u00e1st velk\u00e9ho obrazu. A proto jsem tak opatrn\u00e1 ohledn\u011b vyjad\u0159ov\u00e1n\u00ed sv\u00e9ho n\u00e1zoru.<\/p>\n

Naslouch\u00e1m, pozoruji, sna\u017e\u00edm se zjistit, co po mn\u011b \u017eivot \u017e\u00e1d\u00e1… Jak mu co nejl\u00edp poslou\u017eit v p\u0159\u00edtomn\u00e9 chv\u00edli, te\u010f a tady…<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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