{"id":379,"date":"2018-11-29T08:53:59","date_gmt":"2018-11-29T06:53:59","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/gocreations.info\/kalliopianthi\/?p=379"},"modified":"2019-06-16T15:58:04","modified_gmt":"2019-06-16T13:58:04","slug":"kalli-radi-3-trestani-deti","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/kalliopi-anthi.gr\/cs\/kalli-radi-3-trestani-deti\/","title":{"rendered":"Kalli rad\u00ed (3) O trest\u00e1n\u00ed d\u011bt\u00ed"},"content":{"rendered":"<div>\n<div><em><br \/>\nMil\u00e1 teto<\/em> Kalli,<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div><em>v p\u0159edchoz\u00edch p\u0159\u00edsp\u011bvc\u00edch si trochu rozeb\u00edrala trest\u00e1n\u00ed d\u011bt\u00ed. M\u011b by zaj\u00edmalo trochu podrobn\u011bji, jak to vid\u00ed\u0161 ty, proto\u017ee existuje opravdu mnoho n\u00e1zor\u016f na v\u011bc. Moje sestra m\u00e1 dceru, kter\u00e1 je od mali\u010dka velmi \u017eiv\u00e1 a neposedn\u00e1. Te\u010f je j\u00ed 8 let. Moje sestra v\u017edy volila metodu vysv\u011btlov\u00e1n\u00ed. Mal\u00e1 se t\u0159eba utrhla a cht\u011bla b\u011b\u017eet do silnice, necht\u011bla poslouchat, to j\u00ed bylo tak 5 let. Sestra j\u00ed pak ob\u0161\u00edrn\u011b vysv\u011btlovala, pro\u010d mus\u00ed d\u00e1vat pozor a \u017ee se mus\u00ed dr\u017eet, proto\u017ee jezd\u00ed auta atd. Na mal\u00e9 jsem vid\u011bla, \u017ee je z toho otr\u00e1ven\u00e1 a vlastn\u011b ji v\u016fbec neposlouch\u00e1, jen to p\u0159edst\u00edr\u00e1. Postupem \u010dasu se toto vysv\u011btlov\u00e1n\u00ed stalo takov\u00fdm divad\u00e9lkem, kter\u00e9 mus\u00ed zhl\u00e9dnout a pak ud\u011bl\u00e1 stejn\u011b n\u011bjakou ro\u0161\u0165\u00e1rnu, proto\u017ee trest je &#8222;jen to&#8220;, \u017ee si bude muset n\u011bco &#8222;vyslechnout&#8220;. A te\u010f se pt\u00e1m. Nen\u00ed lep\u0161\u00ed, pokud d\u00edt\u011b ud\u011bl\u00e1 t\u0159eba to, \u017ee se utrhne na silnici m\u00e1m\u011b, co\u017e je i nebezpe\u010dn\u00e9, rovnou pl\u00e1cnout tvrd\u011b po zadku, aby se doc\u00edlilo okam\u017eit\u00e9 reakce na neposlouch\u00e1n\u00ed? Funguje v\u016fbec vysv\u011btlov\u00e1n\u00ed? Nen\u00ed lep\u0161\u00ed pl\u00e1cnout, pokud je d\u00edt\u011b rozdov\u00e1d\u011bn\u00e9 a nesly\u0161\u00ed? Ne\u017e vysv\u011btlovat, \u017ee je pot\u0159eba obl\u00e9knout se, proto\u017ee n\u00e1m ujede autobus? Je to u\u017e fyzick\u00fd trest? Pros\u00edm, m\u016f\u017ee\u0161 to trochu rozebrat?<\/em><\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div><em>D\u011bkuji V.<\/em><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>Mil\u00e1 V.<\/div>\n<div>Nakolik je t\u0159eba v takov\u00e9 chv\u00edli vysv\u011btlovat?&#8230;. to je ot\u00e1zka do pranice! \ud83d\ude42<\/div>\n<div>Co si o tom mysl\u00edm j\u00e1? Ka\u017ed\u00fd \u010dlov\u011bk, a to i mal\u00e9 d\u00edt\u011b, je vybaven pudem sebez\u00e1chovy. Je mnohem pravd\u011bpodobn\u011bj\u0161\u00ed, \u017ee d\u00edt\u011b zastav\u00ed na kraji silnice, proto\u017ee se boj\u00ed, \u017ee ho sraz\u00ed auto, ne\u017e ze strachu, \u017ee ho maminka pl\u00e1cne p\u0159es zadek. Pokud si d\u00edt\u011b nebezpe\u010d\u00ed neuv\u011bdomuje, je dobr\u00e9 mu ho uk\u00e1zat n\u011bjak\u00fdm vhodn\u00fdm zp\u016fsobem. Nap\u0159\u00edklad j\u00edt s n\u00edm do metra, dr\u017eet ho v n\u00e1ru\u010d\u00ed a b\u00fdt pobl\u00ed\u017e b\u00edl\u00e9 \u010d\u00e1ry. D\u00edt\u011b nejprve uc\u00edt\u00ed n\u00e1raz v\u011btru, hluk a pak uvid\u00ed majest\u00e1tn\u00ed p\u0159\u00edjezd vlaku. Je to siln\u00fd z\u00e1\u017eitek a sta\u010d\u00ed mu \u0159\u00edct, \u017ee stejn\u011b nebezpe\u010dn\u00e9 to m\u016f\u017ee b\u00fdt, kdy\u017e vb\u011bhne do silnice a zrovna pojede auto. Pak <b>d\u00edt\u011b jasn\u011b c\u00edt\u00ed, \u017ee jedn\u00e1 ve sv\u00e9m z\u00e1jmu<\/b> a ne proto, aby poslechlo maminku. Takov\u00fd druh nebezpe\u010d\u00ed je schopno pochopit i dvoulet\u00e9 d\u00edt\u011b. Zvl\u00e1\u0161t, kdy\u017e ho na kraji silnice upozorn\u00edte, \u201eTady to za\u010d\u00edn\u00e1, tady budeme d\u00e1vat pozor!\u201c Samoz\u0159ejm\u011b ho budete dr\u017eet za ruku, ale minim\u00e1ln\u011b po 4. roku v\u011bku budete po\u010d\u00edtat s t\u00edm, \u017ee d\u00edt\u011b si je v\u011bdomo nebezpe\u010d\u00ed, respektive nebudete se k n\u011bmu chovat, jako by bylo naprosto hloup\u00e9.<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>Mo\u017en\u00e1 to v\u011bt\u0161ina maminek nerada usly\u0161\u00ed, ale st\u00e1lo by za to zamyslit se nad t\u00edm, pro\u010d to ty d\u011bti vlastn\u011b d\u011blaj\u00ed. M\u00e1te pocit, \u017ee to dosud nepochopily? Mysl\u00edte, \u017ee kdyby \u0161ly po ulici samy, nebo se star\u0161\u00edm kamar\u00e1dem, nebo s t\u00e1tou, \u017ee by m\u011bly stejn\u00e9 chov\u00e1n\u00ed? Tipuji, \u017ee ne&#8230;. Co se st\u00e1v\u00e1 mezi maminkami a d\u011btmi, \u017ee \u010dasto doch\u00e1z\u00ed k takov\u00e9mu nap\u011bt\u00ed a antagonismu (snaze m\u00edt navrch)?<\/div>\n<div>Vysv\u011btlov\u00e1n\u00ed je b\u00e1je\u010dn\u00e1 v\u011bc, pokud n\u00e1m zrovna d\u00edt\u011b naslouch\u00e1. Pokud n\u00e1s neposlouch\u00e1, tak je ne\u00fa\u010dinn\u00e9. M\u016f\u017ee to znamenat, \u017ee <strong>d\u00edt\u011b u\u017e d\u00e1vno v\u00ed, co mu chceme \u0159\u00edct<\/strong>, proto\u017ee si to vyslechlo u\u017e tis\u00edckr\u00e1t. Pro\u010d tedy nejedn\u00e1 podle toho?<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>\u010casto je probl\u00e9m v tom, \u017ee my, maminky, si bereme a\u017e p\u0159\u00edli\u0161 zodpov\u011bdnosti za d\u00edt\u011b. <strong>V\u0161echno za n\u011bj rozhodujeme<\/strong> (co a kdy bude j\u00edst, co si oble\u010de, co, kdy a s k\u00fdm bude d\u011blat, jestli n\u011bkam p\u016fjde nebo ne atd. atd). Za\u010d\u00edn\u00e1 to od mali\u010dka, kdy\u017e po\u010d\u00edt\u00e1me hodiny do krmen\u00ed, p\u0159esto \u017ee miminko pl\u00e1\u010de hlady, bal\u00edme ho do r\u016fzn\u00fdch pe\u0159inek, i kdy\u017e je teplo, a nebo ho obl\u00e9k\u00e1me do drah\u00fdch oble\u010dk\u016f a pak se zlob\u00edme, kdy\u017e se uma\u017ee. M\u00e1me nad d\u00edt\u011btem moc a dokud je hodn\u011b mal\u00e9, ani nepot\u0159ebujeme prost\u0159edky pro p\u0159esv\u011bd\u010dov\u00e1n\u00ed a donucov\u00e1n\u00ed. Hlavn\u00ed na\u0161\u00ed zbran\u00ed a silou je to, \u017ee je d\u00edt\u011b na n\u00e1s z\u00e1visl\u00e9, krom\u011b sv\u00e9ho p\u0159e\u017eit\u00ed je z\u00e1visl\u00e9 i na na\u0161\u00ed l\u00e1sce a p\u0159ijet\u00ed. A my ho milujeme. Ale ne v\u017edy ho respektujeme. <b>D\u011b\u0165\u00e1tko nen\u00ed panenka, je to mal\u00fd \u010dlov\u011bk<\/b>. Je vybaven inteligenc\u00ed, kter\u00e1 samoz\u0159ejm\u011b z\u00e1vis\u00ed na v\u011bku, ale p\u0159esto v\u017edy sta\u010d\u00ed, aby poznal, jestli m\u00e1 hlad nebo jestli je mu zima. Pokud od \u00fatl\u00e9ho v\u011bku tyto z\u00e1le\u017eitosti za d\u00edt\u011b \u0159e\u0161\u00ed maminka, pozd\u011bji ji \u201etrest\u00e1\u201c t\u00edm, \u017ee na n\u00ed uval\u00ed i jin\u00e9 zodpov\u011bdnosti, nap\u0159\u00edklad za to, aby na n\u011b d\u00e1vala pozor i tam, kde by to zvl\u00e1dlo samo. Takov\u00e9 d\u011bti maj\u00ed \u010dasto potajmu radost, \u017ee m\u00e1mu zase vyto\u010dily&#8230;<\/div>\n<div>Nesm\u00edme tak\u00e9 zapom\u00ednat, \u017ee v\u0161echny d\u011bti maj\u00ed pot\u0159ebu vytvo\u0159it si vlastn\u00ed ego, prosadit svou. A to v\u011bt\u0161inou &#8222;cvi\u010d\u00ed&#8220; ve vztahu s maminkou&#8230;<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>Je d\u00edt\u011b p\u0159i p\u0159ech\u00e1zen\u00ed silnice v\u017edy nezodpov\u011bdn\u00e9 nebo jenom n\u011bkdy? Zloben\u00ed m\u016f\u017ee b\u00fdt \u201epomsta za to, \u017ee m\u011b vl\u00e1\u010d\u00ed do \u0161kolky, kde se mi nel\u00edb\u00ed!\u201c Pak by sp\u00ed\u0161 pomohlo \u201evysv\u011btlov\u00e1n\u00ed\u201c na jin\u00e9 t\u00e9ma ne\u017e je bezpe\u010dnost provozu&#8230;<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>Ne\u017e se p\u0159\u00edli\u0161 op\u00edrat o pedagogick\u00e9 teorie, je lep\u0161\u00ed postupovat na z\u00e1klad\u011b konkr\u00e9tn\u00ed situace (nakolik je nebezpe\u010dn\u00e1 a je t\u0159eba d\u00edt\u011b okam\u017eit\u011b usm\u011brnit) a podle povahy d\u00edt\u011bte.<\/div>\n<div>Kdy\u017e je d\u00edt\u011b opravdu rozj\u00edven\u00e9 a \u0159\u00e1d\u00ed, nevad\u00ed pl\u00e1cnout ho po zade\u010dku. Lehk\u00e9 pl\u00e1cnut\u00ed rukou, kter\u00e9 d\u00edt\u011b nebol\u00ed, je sp\u00ed\u0161 gestem usm\u011brn\u011bn\u00ed, ne\u017e trestem. Nevn\u00edmejte to jako trest a ne\u0159\u00edkejte, \u017ee ho trest\u00e1te. V tu chv\u00edli ho chcete \u201evzbudit\u201c, \u201eprobrat, aby p\u0159estalo bl\u00e1znit\u201c, tak to tak berte a \u0159ekn\u011bte mu to s humorem. Kdy\u017e budete m\u00edt hysterick\u00fd v\u00fdraz, tak bude d\u00edt\u011b d\u00e1l rozru\u0161en\u00e9, kdy\u017e budete vy v klidu, tak se tak\u00e9 zklidn\u00ed.<\/div>\n<div>Pl\u00e1cnut\u00ed rukou p\u0159es zadek m\u00e1 tu v\u00fdhodu, \u017ee \u010dlov\u011bk vn\u00edm\u00e1 s\u00edlu, kterou pou\u017e\u00edv\u00e1, m\u00e1 nad n\u00ed kontrolu. M\u016f\u017eete tak\u00e9 d\u00edt\u011b p\u0159edem varovat: \u201eM\u00e1m t\u011b pl\u00e1cnout p\u0159es vyp\u00edna\u010d na zade\u010dku? Zkus\u00edm to zloben\u00ed vypnout ..!\u201c\u00a0 Temperamentn\u011bj\u0161\u00ed d\u011bti p\u0159ijmou pl\u00e1cnut\u00ed l\u00e9pe ne\u017e n\u011bjak\u00e9 dlouh\u00e9 vysv\u011btlov\u00e1n\u00ed a napom\u00edn\u00e1n\u00ed. D\u011bti, kter\u00e9 maj\u00ed plachou a tichou povahu, jsou citliv\u00e9 jak na dotek, tak i na p\u0159\u00edsn\u00e9 slovo. Tam nen\u00ed vhodn\u00e9 pl\u00e1cnut\u00ed, i kdyby bylo lehk\u00e9. I p\u0159ed napomenut\u00edm pot\u0159ebuj\u00ed nap\u0159ed uji\u0161t\u011bn\u00ed typu: \u201eV\u00edm, \u017ees to myslel dob\u0159e, ale&#8230;.\u201c Nebo: \u201eJsi hodn\u00e1 hol\u010di\u010dka, proto ned\u011blej&#8230;.\u201c<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div><strong>Reakce d\u00edt\u011bte<\/strong> na pl\u00e1cnut\u00ed v\u00e1m uk\u00e1\u017ee, zda to byl u\u017eite\u010dn\u00fd tah anebo p\u0159ehmat. Kdy\u017e by se dlouho vztekalo a nebo plakalo a c\u00edtilo se pon\u00ed\u017een\u00e9, asi jste to p\u0159ehnali a st\u00e1lo by za to v\u011bc napravit. Sta\u010d\u00ed \u0159\u00edct, \u201eSp\u011bchala jsem a tak mi ujely nervy&#8230;\u201c d\u00edt\u011b to pochop\u00ed (s takov\u00fdm uj\u00ed\u017ed\u011bn\u00edm m\u00e1 sv\u00e9 vlastn\u00ed zku\u0161enosti!) nebo \u201eNemyslela jsem to tak&#8230;.\u201c Podobn\u011b je vhodn\u00e9 se omluvit, pokud jste trestali v afektu a po uklidn\u011bn\u00ed m\u00e1te najednou v\u00fd\u010ditky. \u201ePromi\u0148, necht\u011bla jsem b\u00fdt nespravedliv\u00e1&#8230;!\u201c v\u011bt\u0161inou posta\u010d\u00ed. D\u00edt\u011b ocen\u00ed nejen to, \u017ee p\u0159izn\u00e1me svou chybu, ale je pro n\u011bj velk\u00e1 \u00faleva pocit, \u017ee ani rodi\u010de nejsou dokonal\u00ed. Tak se u\u010d\u00ed toleranci a schopnosti odpou\u0161t\u011bt (jin\u00fdm a samo sob\u011b).<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div><span style=\"color: #993300;\"><em><strong>O trest\u00e1n\u00ed<\/strong><\/em><\/span><\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>D\u011bti pot\u0159ebuj\u00ed m\u00edt jasn\u00e1 pravidla a tak\u00e9 v\u011bd\u011bt, co se stane kdy\u017e je poru\u0161\u00ed. D\u011bti se c\u00edt\u00ed v bezpe\u010d\u00ed, kdy\u017e maj\u00ed rodi\u010de\u00a0 autoritu a posledn\u00ed slovo. Sou\u010dasn\u011b si v\u0161ak mohou formovat osobnost t\u00edm, \u017ee se ob\u010das s rodi\u010di st\u0159etnou a hranice p\u0159ekro\u010d\u00ed. To v\u0161e je d\u016fle\u017eit\u00e9 pro jejich rozvoj.<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>Co se t\u00fdk\u00e1 trest\u016f (jako: na\u0159ezat, &#8222;na hanbu&#8220;, z\u00e1kaz televize atd), jsou m\u00e1lokdy \u00fa\u010dinn\u00e9 a v\u011bt\u0161inou vyjad\u0159uj\u00ed sp\u00ed\u0161 zoufalstv\u00ed rodi\u010d\u016f ne\u017e n\u011bjak\u00fd c\u00edlen\u00fd v\u00fdchovn\u00fd prost\u0159edek. To, co opravdu funguje, je <strong>logick\u00fd d\u016fsledek<\/strong>. To znamen\u00e1, \u017ee postih m\u00e1 v\u017edy souvislost s t\u00edm, co d\u00edt\u011b provedlo, je p\u0159edv\u00eddateln\u00fd a d\u00edt\u011b se mu m\u016f\u017ee vyhnout, kdy\u017e nebude jednat nespr\u00e1vn\u011b. Pokud je pot\u0159eba n\u011bjak\u00fd postih, nen\u00ed to trest, ale d\u016fsledek jedn\u00e1n\u00ed d\u00edt\u011bte. Tak d\u00edt\u011b vedeme k tomu, aby napravilo svou chybu. U\u010d\u00ed se odpov\u011bdnosti za sv\u00e9 \u010diny, ani\u017e by bylo zat\u011b\u017eov\u00e1no pocity viny nebo ozna\u010dov\u00e1no za ne\u0161iku, hlup\u00e1ka nebo \u0161patn\u00e9ho \u010dlov\u011bka.<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>Mal\u00fd p\u0159\u00edklad: D\u00edt\u011b omylem rozbije skleni\u010dku. Po\u017e\u00e1d\u00e1me ho, aby opatrn\u011b uklidilo st\u0159epy. (Pom\u016f\u017eeme mu, ale nebudeme to d\u011blat za n\u011bj). To nen\u00ed trest, po sob\u011b uklidit. V\u017edy\u0165 ani nen\u00ed t\u0159eba trestat za n\u011bco, co se m\u016f\u017ee st\u00e1t ka\u017ed\u00e9mu! Pokud ale skleni\u010dku rozbilo schv\u00e1ln\u011b, ze vzteku, tak mu \u0159ekneme, \u017ee mus\u00edme koupit novou, za jeho pen\u00edzky nebo m\u00edsto zmrzlinky. Kdy\u017e to vysv\u011btl\u00edme v klidu a d\u00edt\u011b to pochop\u00ed, p\u0159\u00ed\u0161t\u011b rad\u0161i investuje do zmrzliny ne\u017e do dal\u0161\u00ed skleni\u010dky.<\/div>\n<div>Pokud nechce ukl\u00edzet hra\u010dky, \u0159ekneme, \u017ee jich m\u00e1 asi moc a a\u0165 si vybere jenom p\u00e1r, tolik, kolik je schopno uklidit. Ostatn\u00ed ulo\u017e\u00edme n\u011bkam mimo jeho dosah (p\u0159ed n\u00edm, ne tajn\u011b, ide\u00e1ln\u00ed je s jeho pomoc\u00ed) a ud\u011bl\u00e1me dohodu, \u017ee jakmile \u201ebude m\u00edt dost s\u00edly\u201c uklidit o 1-2 hra\u010dky v\u00edc, hned mu je vyd\u00e1me. V podstat\u011b to d\u011bl\u00e1me, abychom mu pomohli, ne abychom ho potrestali.\u00a0 Moc v\u011bc\u00ed najednou p\u0159in\u00e1\u0161\u00ed d\u00edt\u011bti zmatek. Demokracie je dobr\u00e1, ale kdy\u017e je j\u00ed moc, vznik\u00e1 chaos. (Zrovna tak s obl\u00e9k\u00e1n\u00edm je lep\u0161\u00ed d\u00edt\u011bti d\u00e1t, a\u0165 si vybere jednu ze t\u0159\u00ed v\u011bc\u00ed, ne\u017e aby rozhrabalo celou sk\u0159\u00ed\u0148 a nemohlo se rozhodnout).<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div><strong>Metoda logick\u00fdch d\u016fsledk\u016f je to mnohem v\u00fdchovn\u011bj\u0161\u00ed a \u00fa\u010dinn\u011bj\u0161\u00ed postoj, ne\u017e\u00a0 trest\u00e1n\u00ed<\/strong>. P\u0159i trest\u00e1n\u00ed si rodi\u010de \u010dasto vyb\u00edjej\u00ed zlost a p\u0159ikazuj\u00ed nebo zakazuj\u00ed v\u011bci, kter\u00e9 nemaj\u00ed \u017e\u00e1dnou souvislost s t\u00edm, co d\u00edt\u011b provedlo. (Nesn\u011bdl jsi j\u00eddlo, tak si nep\u016fjde\u0161 ven hr\u00e1t. Nechce\u0161 uklidit hra\u010dky, proto nesm\u00ed\u0161 j\u00edt na n\u00e1v\u0161t\u011bvu ke kamar\u00e1dovi&#8230; atd.) To d\u00edt\u011b vn\u00edm\u00e1 jako ur\u010ditou formu n\u00e1sil\u00ed, zv\u016fle. T\u011b\u0161\u00ed se, a\u017e vyroste a rodi\u010de nebudou m\u00edt pr\u00e1vo a mo\u017enost ho omezovat. \u010cast\u00e9, p\u0159\u00edsn\u00e9 a nesmysln\u00e9 trest\u00e1n\u00ed kaz\u00ed vztah a postr\u00e1d\u00e1 v\u00fdchovn\u00fd dopad, proto\u017ee <b>d\u00edt\u011b nem\u00e1<\/b> <b>ochotu rodi\u010de poslechnout<\/b>, d\u011bl\u00e1 to jen ze strachu nebo z donucen\u00ed.<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div><strong>Z\u00e1kazy<\/strong>, jako nap\u0159. z\u00e1kaz j\u00edt ven, na fotbal, hr\u00e1t si s kamar\u00e1dy apod. d\u00edt\u011b bere jako omezov\u00e1n\u00ed osobn\u00ed svobody a vn\u00edm\u00e1 je jako nespravedliv\u00e9 p\u0159esto, \u017ee si uv\u011bdomuje sv\u016fj pod\u00edl viny. Pohyb a spole\u010densk\u00fd kontakt jsou, stejn\u011b jako j\u00eddlo, z\u00e1kladn\u00ed pot\u0159eby a pokud v jejich uspokojen\u00ed d\u00edt\u011bti br\u00e1n\u00edme, c\u00edt\u00ed to jako bezpr\u00e1v\u00ed.<\/div>\n<div>\n<p><strong>T\u011blesn\u00e9 tresty<\/strong> jsou naprosto nevhodn\u00e9 a ne\u00fa\u010dinn\u00e9. N\u00e1sil\u00ed plod\u00ed n\u00e1sil\u00ed. Kdy\u017e je d\u00edt\u011b vyd\u011b\u0161en\u00e9, tak nen\u00ed schopno p\u0159em\u00fd\u0161let a porozum\u011bt. Pokud cht\u011bj\u00ed rodi\u010de, aby d\u00edt\u011b pochopilo, pro\u010d nesm\u00ed n\u011bco d\u011blat, nesm\u00ed ho terorizovat. To plat\u00ed pro t\u011blesn\u00e9, ale i du\u0161evn\u00ed tresty (vyhro\u017eov\u00e1n\u00ed, zamyk\u00e1n\u00ed v pokoj\u00ed\u010dku atd.) Rodi\u010de by m\u011bli p\u011bstovat svou du\u0161evn\u00ed s\u00edlu, p\u0159edev\u0161\u00edm trp\u011blivost. T\u011blesnou s\u00edlu maj\u00ed p\u0159irozen\u011b mnohem v\u011bt\u0161\u00ed ne\u017e jejich mal\u00e9 d\u00edt\u011b. Pokud ji budou pou\u017e\u00edvat, bu\u010f d\u00edt\u011b zlom\u00ed, nebo vychovaj\u00ed dal\u0161\u00edho teroristu.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div>Co se t\u00fdk\u00e1<strong> trest\u016f<\/strong> stylu \u201est\u00e1t na hanb\u011b\u201c, mysl\u00edm, \u017ee jsou to nesmysln\u00e9 praktiky. Pokud chceme m\u00edt d\u00edt\u011b sebev\u011bdom\u00e9 a zodpov\u011bdn\u00e9, nebudeme ho nutit, aby se styd\u011blo n\u011bkde v kout\u011b! D\u00edt\u011b pot\u0159ebuje akci a mo\u017enost napravit, co pokazilo, a ne pocity viny a osobn\u00ed neschopnosti.<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>Kdy\u017e u\u017e se v\u00e1m n\u011bco nel\u00edb\u00ed, tak <strong>charakterizujte nevhodn\u00e9 chov\u00e1n\u00ed a ne d\u00edt\u011b samotn\u00e9<\/strong>! T\u0159eba: \u201eTo jsi to teda popletl!\u201c a ne \u201eTy jsi popleta!!\u201c<\/div>\n<div>Proto\u017ee my, jako rodi\u010de, toho taky hodn\u011b popleteme&#8230; A d\u011bti to ob\u010das vid\u00ed. Tak k sob\u011b bu\u010fme vz\u00e1jemn\u011b shov\u00edvav\u00ed! \ud83d\ude42<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>s l\u00e1skou Kalli<\/div>\n<div>\n<p>ot\u00e1zky na Kalli m\u016f\u017eete zas\u00edlat na adresu <a href=\"mailto:kalianth@yahoo.gr\">kalianth@yahoo.gr<\/a><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<p>30.1.2013 <a href=\"http:\/\/www.cesivrecku.cz\/kalli-radi-potreti\/#comments\">3 koment\u00e1\u0159\u016f<\/a><\/p>\n<h2 id=\"comments\"><\/h2>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Mil\u00e1 teto Kalli, v p\u0159edchoz\u00edch p\u0159\u00edsp\u011bvc\u00edch si trochu rozeb\u00edrala trest\u00e1n\u00ed d\u011bt\u00ed. M\u011b by zaj\u00edmalo trochu podrobn\u011bji, jak to vid\u00ed\u0161 ty, proto\u017ee existuje opravdu mnoho n\u00e1zor\u016f na v\u011bc. Moje sestra m\u00e1 dceru, kter\u00e1 je od mali\u010dka velmi \u017eiv\u00e1 a neposedn\u00e1. Te\u010f je j\u00ed 8 let. Moje sestra v\u017edy volila metodu vysv\u011btlov\u00e1n\u00ed. 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