{"id":401,"date":"2018-11-29T08:59:15","date_gmt":"2018-11-29T06:59:15","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/gocreations.info\/kalliopianthi\/?p=401"},"modified":"2020-03-01T18:35:33","modified_gmt":"2020-03-01T16:35:33","slug":"kalli-radi-12-jak-si-tady-zvyknout","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/kalliopi-anthi.gr\/cs\/kalli-radi-12-jak-si-tady-zvyknout\/","title":{"rendered":"Kalli rad\u00ed (12) Jak si tady zvyknout"},"content":{"rendered":"

Mil\u00e1 Kalli, <\/em><\/p>\n

cht\u011bla bych se t\u011b zeptat, jak se m\u00e1m vyrovnat s rozd\u00edly mezi \u010deskou mentalitou a \u0159eckou mentalitou. S t\u00edm, \u017ee v \u0158ecku neznaj\u00ed syst\u00e9m. Bydl\u00edm na vesnici a v\u0161e se tu \u0159e\u0161\u00ed jaksi posedl\u00e1cku. Autobusy nejezd\u00ed na \u010das, po\u0161ta nechod\u00ed p\u0159esn\u011b. N\u011bco pot\u0159ebuji za\u0159\u00eddit a ka\u017ed\u00fd mi \u0159ekne n\u011bco jin\u00e9ho, pak jedu do m\u011bsta a ztrat\u00edm den, proto\u017ee to je v\u0161e jinak (m\u00e1m na mysli r\u016fzn\u00e9 \u00fa\u0159ady a tak). Kdy\u017e jsem se sem p\u0159ist\u011bhovala, tak se mi zd\u00e1lo v\u0161e jako poh\u00e1dka. V\u0161ichni byli mil\u00ed a p\u0159\u00e1tel\u0161t\u00ed. Po n\u011bkolika letech za\u010d\u00edn\u00e1m vn\u00edmat ty rozd\u00edly. Jak se nem\u00e1m po\u0159\u00e1d tr\u00e1pit a roz\u010dilovat nad rozd\u00edly. Jsem tu te\u010f 5 let. Jak to m\u00e1m ud\u011blat, abych si zvykla? M\u00e1\u0161 n\u011bjakou radu? <\/em><\/p>\n

D\u011bkuji moc za tv\u016fj \u010das. R.<\/em><\/p>\n

Mil\u00e1 R.<\/p>\n

D\u00edky za dotaz, kter\u00fd, jak se zd\u00e1, vyjad\u0159uje pocity mnoha \u017een, kter\u00e9 se p\u0159ist\u011bhovaly do \u0158ecka. Nejde si nev\u0161imnout kontrastu mezi nad\u0161en\u00edm, se kter\u00fdm d\u00edvky mluv\u00ed a p\u00ed\u0161\u00ed (na r\u016fzn\u00fdch internetov\u00fdch str\u00e1nk\u00e1ch a skupin\u00e1ch) o svoj\u00ed touze n\u00e1sledovat sv\u00e9ho mil\u00e9ho do jeho rodi\u0161t\u011b, a skeptick\u00fdmi, skoro a\u017e nevra\u017eiv\u00fdmi reakcemi v koment\u00e1\u0159\u00edch \u017een, kter\u00e9 u\u017e tuto volbu kdysi ud\u011blaly.<\/p>\n

Kam se pod\u011blo v\u0161echno to nad\u0161en\u00ed? Jak je mo\u017en\u00e9, \u017ee se n\u011bco zd\u00e1 b\u00fdt kr\u00e1sn\u00fdm snem a pak se z toho vyvine no\u010dn\u00ed m\u016fra? Do jak\u00e9 m\u00edry za to m\u016f\u017ee okol\u00ed a jin\u00e1 mentalita \u0158ek\u016f? Je v\u016fbec mo\u017en\u00e9 si zvyknout? To jsou d\u016fle\u017eit\u00e9 ot\u00e1zky, pokud si \u010dlov\u011bk opravdu p\u0159eje naj\u00edt n\u011bjak\u00e9 \u0159e\u0161en\u00ed, aby se c\u00edtil l\u00e9pe.<\/p>\n

Tak\u017ee, za\u010dn\u011bme mal\u00fdm p\u00e1tr\u00e1n\u00edm po ztracen\u00e9m nad\u0161en\u00ed. Je to, zd\u00e1 se, jev velmi roz\u0161\u00ed\u0159en\u00fd ve v\u0161ech vztaz\u00edch, po n\u011bkolika prvn\u00edch letech trv\u00e1n\u00ed. Souvis\u00ed se zm\u011bnami, kter\u00e9 s sebou nese odezn\u011bn\u00ed f\u00e1ze zamilovanosti. V\u011bdci, ve shod\u011b s b\u00e1sn\u00edky, mluv\u00ed o zamilovanosti jako o \u201eopojen\u00ed\u201c . A skute\u010dn\u011b, p\u0159i bli\u017e\u0161\u00edm pohledu na to, co se d\u011bje v lidsk\u00e9m t\u011ble, zjist\u00edme, \u017ee zamilovan\u00e9mu \u010dlov\u011bku v krvi koluje omamn\u00fd koktejl hormon\u016f, kter\u00fd zp\u016fsobuje, \u017ee do\u010dasn\u011b c\u00edt\u00edme, jako bychom byli s milovanou osobou jedno. Je na\u0161\u00ed druhou polovinou. <\/em>Do\u010dasn\u011b se zhrout\u00ed hranice na\u0161eho ega <\/em>a je to, jakoby pouze v bl\u00edzkosti na\u0161eho milovan\u00e9ho jsme byli cel\u00ed<\/em>. Kdy\u017e je vzd\u00e1len\u00fd, nejen \u017ee n\u00e1m chyb\u00ed jeho p\u0159\u00edtomnost, ale m\u00e1me najednou pocit, \u017ee jsme ne\u00fapln\u00ed a p\u0159edstava \u017eivota v t\u00e9to \u201ene\u00faplnosti\u201c n\u00e1s v\u016fbec net\u011b\u0161\u00ed. Pocit jednoty tak\u00e9 sni\u017euje schopnost kritick\u00e9ho uva\u017eov\u00e1n\u00ed, tak\u017ee n\u00e1m v\u0161echno na na\u0161em milovan\u00e9m p\u0159ipad\u00e1 dokonal\u00e9 a v\u011b\u0159\u00edme tomu, \u017ee to tak bude nav\u017edy. Nav\u00edc, zamilov\u00e1n\u00ed zp\u016fsobuje zv\u00fd\u0161en\u00ed obsahu dopaminu, kter\u00fd s sebou nese z\u00e1sobu energie, rozhodnosti a nad\u0161en\u00ed. A v\u00fdsledkem v\u0161ech t\u011bchto zm\u011bn je p\u0159esn\u011b to, co mati\u010dka p\u0159\u00edroda pl\u00e1novala, a sice abychom se rozhoupali k osudov\u00e9mu kroku zalo\u017eit rodinu a vytvo\u0159it podm\u00ednky pro nov\u00fd \u017eivot.<\/p>\n

Ve v\u0161ech vztaz\u00edch, i tam, kde lid\u00e9 nezm\u011bn\u00ed prost\u0159ed\u00ed, aby mohli n\u00e1sledovat sv\u00e9ho partnera, po prvn\u00edch letech spole\u010dn\u00e9ho \u017eivota doch\u00e1z\u00ed k postupn\u00e9m \u201en\u00e1vratu do norm\u00e1lu\u201c, kdy se obnov\u00ed schopnost objektivn\u011b hodnotit a p\u0159edev\u0161\u00edm se znovu upevn\u00ed hranice ega<\/em>. Za\u010dneme op\u011bt vn\u00edmat sebe jako samostatnou bytost, kter\u00e1 m\u00e1 sv\u00e9 n\u00e1zory, sv\u00e9 pot\u0159eby a sv\u00e9 priority. U\u017e si dovedeme p\u0159edstavit, \u017ee bychom mohli b\u00fdt sami za sebe, a pokud vznikaj\u00ed \u010dast\u00e9 partnersk\u00e9 konflikty, za\u010d\u00edn\u00e1me o tom i uva\u017eovat. Je to takov\u00e9 rozcest\u00ed: jedn\u00edm sm\u011brem vede cesta k rozchodu, druh\u00fdm sm\u011b\u0159uje k budov\u00e1n\u00ed vzahu, kdy oba v\u011bd\u00ed, \u017ee by mohli \u017e\u00edt ka\u017ed\u00fd na vlastn\u00ed p\u011bst, ale rozhodnou se z\u016fstat spolu. Pak u\u017e nemluv\u00edme o zamilov\u00e1n\u00ed, ale o l\u00e1sce – v\u011bdom\u00e9 volb\u011b.<\/p>\n

To je sp\u00ed\u0161 biologick\u00e9 vysv\u011btlen\u00ed… Ale pod\u00edvejme se na to i z hlediska psychologie: co se d\u011bje v podv\u011bdom\u00ed \u017een ohledn\u011b p\u0159edstavy \u017eivota po boku vysn\u011bn\u00e9ho mu\u017ee?<\/p>\n

Jako hol\u010di\u010dky jsme vyrostly s v\u00edrou v m\u00fdtus romantick\u00e9 l\u00e1sky, \u017ee se jednoho dne objev\u00ed kr\u00e1sn\u00fd a bohat\u00fd princ, kter\u00fd bude jako stvo\u0159en\u00fd jen a jen pro n\u00e1s, a jeho\u017e \u017eivotn\u00edm posl\u00e1n\u00edm bude plnit n\u00e1m na\u0161e p\u0159\u00e1n\u00ed a u\u010dinit n\u00e1s \u0161\u0165astn\u00fdmi. Tento princ n\u00e1s odvede z rodiny, kde ob\u010das pro\u017e\u00edv\u00e1me r\u016fzn\u00e9 \u00fastrky, kde n\u00e1s nedoce\u0148uj\u00ed a kde se mus\u00edme p\u0159izp\u016fsobovat a poslouchat. V nov\u00e9m kr\u00e1lovstv\u00ed se staneme uzn\u00e1vanou a v\u0161emi obdivovanou osobou a budeme se pod\u00edlet s man\u017eelem-kr\u00e1lem na panov\u00e1n\u00ed. (A \u017eili \u0161\u0165astn\u011b a vl\u00e1dli spolu moud\u0159e a spravedliv\u011b…<\/em> \ud83d\ude42 ). Nep\u00ed\u0161i to ironicky! Je faktem, \u017ee do ur\u010dit\u00e9 m\u00edry m\u00e1me v podv\u011bdom\u00ed tento obraz, a dokud si ho nep\u0159izn\u00e1me, nebudeme moci p\u0159ekonat podv\u011bdom\u00fd pocit<\/em>, \u017ee n\u00e1s n\u00e1\u0161 princ (a \u017eivot v\u016fbec) tak trochu podvedli.<\/p>\n

Je zaj\u00edmav\u00e9, \u017ee mu\u017ei, kte\u0159\u00ed se p\u0159ist\u011bhovali do \u0158ecka, p\u0159esto\u017ee tak\u00e9 z\u00e1pas\u00ed se stejn\u00fdmi probl\u00e9my a t\u0159eba se i roz\u010diluj\u00ed nad p\u0159\u00edstupem \u0158ek\u016f, p\u016fsob\u00ed celkov\u011b sm\u00ed\u0159en\u011bji a snadn\u011bji se s probl\u00e9my vyrovn\u00e1vaj\u00ed. Nen\u00ed to t\u00edm, \u017ee by m\u011bli v\u011bt\u0161\u00ed p\u0159izp\u016fsobivost, naopak, \u017eeny se v\u011bt\u0161inou adaptuj\u00ed rychleji a tak\u00e9 se snadn\u011bji nau\u010d\u00ed mluvit a ps\u00e1t \u0159ecky. Je to sp\u00ed\u0161 o tom, \u017ee mu\u017ei nemaj\u00ed tendence br\u00e1t rozd\u00edln\u00fd p\u0159\u00edstup osobn\u011b <\/strong>a tak\u00e9 se<\/strong> nesna\u017e\u00ed <\/strong>sv\u00e9 okol\u00ed<\/strong> za ka\u017edou cenu m\u011bnit.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Tak\u017ee, pokud jsme se odst\u011bhovaly do \u0158ecka (nebo kamkoliv jinam, na partnerovo rodi\u0161t\u011b nebo m\u00edsto p\u016fsoben\u00ed) s pocitem, \u017ee tam za\u010dne kone\u010dn\u011b ten svobodn\u00fd, poh\u00e1dkov\u00fd \u017eivot pln\u00fd uzn\u00e1n\u00ed, nevyhnuteln\u011b dojdeme ke zklam\u00e1n\u00ed. A tak prvn\u00edm krokem je si uv\u011bdomit, \u017ee \u017eivot v man\u017eelstv\u00ed obecn\u011b nen\u00ed poh\u00e1dka se \u0161\u0165astn\u00fdm koncem hned po svatb\u011b, ale sp\u00ed\u0161 seri\u00e1l, ve kter\u00e9m jsme spoluautorem ka\u017ed\u00e9ho d\u00edlu a kde je mnoho verz\u00ed toho, jak to m\u016f\u017ee dopadnout.<\/p>\n

Jak si poradit s roz\u010darov\u00e1n\u00edm? Prvn\u00ed reakc\u00ed lid\u00ed, kdy\u017e se n\u011bco neda\u0159\u00ed, je hledat, kdo za to m\u016f\u017ee. Bohu\u017eel, u\u017e od ran\u00e9ho ml\u00e1d\u00ed jsme se s t\u00edm setkali v\u0161ichni… Kdy\u017e u\u017e je n\u011bco \u0161patn\u011b, p\u0159in\u00e1\u0161\u00ed n\u00e1m \u00falevu alespo\u0148 v\u011bdom\u00ed, \u017ee my za to nem\u016f\u017eeme. N\u011bkdo jin\u00fd nese odpov\u011bdnost<\/strong>. (A tajn\u011b douf\u00e1me, \u017ee p\u0159ijde chvilka, kdy si to \u201eod-nese<\/strong>\u201c, nebo aspo\u0148 p\u0159izn\u00e1 svoji vinu). Jen\u017ee, tuto tendenci m\u00e1me v\u0161ichni, a tak to prost\u011b nem\u016f\u017ee fungovat. Pokud se ka\u017ed\u00fd zam\u011b\u0159uje pouze na obhajobu sv\u00e9ho postoje (sv\u00fdch n\u00e1zor\u016f, chov\u00e1n\u00ed, o\u010dek\u00e1v\u00e1n\u00ed, zvyk\u016f…) a na kritiku postoje toho druh\u00e9ho, nikdy se nep\u0159eneseme od soupe\u0159en\u00ed<\/strong> o to, kdo m\u00e1 pravdu, ke skute\u010dn\u00e9 spolupr\u00e1ci.<\/strong> Je dobr\u00e9 br\u00e1t v\u011bci tak, jak jsou. V\u0161ude, v ka\u017ed\u00e9 zemi, v ka\u017ed\u00e9 rodin\u011b, v ka\u017ed\u00e9m \u010dlov\u011bku jsou kr\u00e1sn\u00e9 i nep\u0159\u00edjemn\u00e9 prvky sou\u010dasn\u011b. Kdy\u017e se zam\u011b\u0159\u00edme na ty kr\u00e1sn\u00e9, budeme se c\u00edtit dob\u0159e a budeme se radovat ze sv\u00e9 volby. Kdy\u017e se zam\u011b\u0159\u00edme na ty nep\u0159\u00edjemn\u00e9, budeme se c\u00edtit mizern\u011b a budeme litovat sv\u00e9 volby. V ka\u017ed\u00e9m p\u0159\u00edpad\u011b je dobr\u00e9 si b\u00fdt v\u011bdom toho, \u017ee to byla m\u00e1 volba<\/strong> a \u017ee pokud \u017eivot potvrd\u00ed, \u017ee je nevyhovuj\u00edc\u00ed, \u017ee mi br\u00e1n\u00ed v m\u00e9m rozvoji a omezuje m\u011b mnohem v\u00edc, ne\u017e m\u011b uspokojuje, \u017ee m\u00e1m pr\u00e1vo ji zm\u011bnit!<\/p>\n

P\u00e1r rad pro snadn\u011bj\u0161\u00ed aklimatizaci v nov\u00e9m prost\u0159ed\u00ed:<\/strong><\/p>\n

– Vych\u00e1zej z toho, \u017ee v\u011bci jsou tak, jak jsou, a \u017ee nen\u00ed tv\u00fdm \u00fakolem nikoho m\u011bnit.<\/p>\n

– Nep\u0159en\u00e1\u0161ej sv\u00e9 pocity ze vztahu s partnerem na cel\u00e9 okol\u00ed (kdy\u017e jste spolu zadob\u0159e, je \u0158ecko b\u00e1je\u010dn\u00e9, kdy\u017e se poh\u00e1d\u00e1te, je to ta nejnemo\u017en\u011bj\u0161\u00ed zem\u011b na sv\u011bt\u011b)<\/p>\n

– Zam\u011b\u0159 se na pozitivn\u00ed a p\u0159\u00edjemn\u00e9 str\u00e1nky sv\u00e9ho \u017eivota. Kdy\u017e ti n\u011bco nevyhovuje, zkus naj\u00edt a navrhnout prakti\u010dt\u011bj\u0161\u00ed \u0159e\u0161en\u00ed, ani\u017e bys zd\u016fraz\u0148ovala, \u017ee se to dosud d\u011blalo \u0161patn\u011b. Sna\u017e se vyhnout pocitu nad\u0159azenosti, v\u011bci se daj\u00ed d\u011blat mnoha zp\u016fsoby a v podstat\u011b nejde o to, dok\u00e1zat, kdo m\u00e1 pravdu, ale \u017e\u00edt v pohod\u011b.<\/p>\n

– Najdi si n\u011bjakou pr\u00e1ci nebo \u010dinnost, co t\u011b napl\u0148uje a t\u011b\u0161\u00ed (alespo\u0148 na p\u00e1r hodin t\u00fddn\u011b). \u017divot nen\u00ed jenom man\u017eelstv\u00ed a mate\u0159stv\u00ed, i kdy\u017e t\u011bsn\u011b po svatb\u011b je to z\u00e1vazek \u201ena pln\u00fd \u00favazek\u201c.<\/p>\n

– Pokus se naj\u00edt p\u0159\u00e1tele i mezi \u201edomorodci\u201c. N\u011bkdy to n\u011bjakou dobu trv\u00e1, ne\u017e t\u011b k sob\u011b pust\u00ed, ale d\u0159\u00edve nebo pozd\u011bji, kdy\u017e vytrv\u00e1\u0161 a z\u016fstane\u0161 vst\u0159\u00edcn\u00e1, se karty obr\u00e1t\u00ed.<\/p>\n

– Neo\u010dek\u00e1vej a nevy\u017eaduj od ostatn\u00edch, aby ti rozum\u011bli a aby ti byli ochotn\u00ed pom\u00e1hat. Pokud ses provdala na vesnici, pravd\u011bpodobn\u011b jsou tam lid\u00e9 vychov\u00e1van\u00ed jinak, ne\u017e jsi byla ty z m\u011bsta. Sp\u00ed\u0161 je pozoruj, jak mezi sebou komunikuj\u00ed, jak\u00e1 maj\u00ed pravidla a m\u011b\u0159\u00edtka pro to co je vhodn\u00e9 a co ne. Pak pro tebe bude jednodu\u0161\u0161\u00ed nebrat v\u011bci osobn\u011b.<\/p>\n

– Neber to v\u0161echno tak v\u00e1\u017en\u011b. Nejlep\u0161\u00ed a univerz\u00e1ln\u00ed l\u00e9k \u00fapln\u011b na v\u0161echno je humor.<\/p>\n

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A na z\u00e1v\u011br je\u0161t\u011b jedna mal\u00e1 \u00favaha: Je v\u016fbec re\u00e1ln\u00e9, aby \u201ep\u0159ist\u011bhovalec\u201c zapadl do nov\u00e9ho prost\u0159ed\u00ed a n\u011bjak\u00fdm zp\u016fsobem ho prom\u011bnil? J\u00e1 osobn\u011b v\u011b\u0159\u00edm, \u017ee to jde, ale chce to \u010das a um\u011bn\u00ed. Jak na to? D\u00e1m mal\u00fd p\u0159\u00edklad ze sv\u011bta hudby, proto\u017ee to j\u00e1 r\u00e1da. \ud83d\ude42 P\u0159edstav si, \u017ee bys \u0161la do taverny, kde se hraje rebetiko <\/em>a cht\u011bla po muzikantech, aby zahr\u00e1li polku. Asi by to ne\u0161lo, \u017ee… A te\u010f si p\u0159edstav, \u017ee je chvilku pozoruje\u0161, vezme\u0161 si kytaru, nalad\u00ed\u0161 podle nich a postupn\u011b se p\u0159id\u00e1\u0161. Zeza\u010d\u00e1tku t\u011b mo\u017en\u00e1 ani moc nezaznamenaj\u00ed, ale \u010d\u00edm v\u00edc, d\u00e9le a jist\u011bji bude\u0161 hr\u00e1t, t\u00edm v\u00edc prostoru z\u00edsk\u00e1\u0161 a do\u010dk\u00e1\u0161 se i n\u011bjak\u00e9ho s\u00f3la. Kdy\u017e zaboduje\u0161, proto\u017ee udr\u017e\u00ed\u0161 rytmus s ostatn\u00edmi a tv\u016fj p\u0159\u00edsp\u011bvek s nimi bude v harmonii, ud\u011bl\u00e1\u0161 radost sob\u011b i jim. Tak\u017ee se brzy do\u010dk\u00e1\u0161 dal\u0161\u00edho s\u00f3la. A pak p\u0159ijde tvoje chv\u00edle pro f\u016fzi, st\u0159ihne\u0161 tam rebetiko-polkovou vsuvku a pokud to nebude fale\u0161n\u00e9 a p\u0159ed\u00e1\u0161 pak zase s\u00f3lo n\u011bkomu dal\u0161\u00edmu, tak si z\u00edsk\u00e1\u0161 svoje m\u00edste\u010dko v kapele. A hudba, co budete hr\u00e1t, bude je\u0161t\u011b bohat\u0161\u00ed a kr\u00e1sn\u011bj\u0161\u00ed.<\/p>\n

V\u011b\u0159\u00edm, \u017ee je obdob\u00ed pro synt\u00e9zy ve v\u0161ech sm\u011brech. Kdy\u017e m\u016f\u017eou b\u00fdt rokov\u00e9 opery, tak co br\u00e1n\u00ed tomu, aby zazn\u011bly harmonicky i jin\u00e1 \u201epantremata\u201c (s\u0148atky)? Hlavn\u011b to mus\u00ed ladit!<\/strong> A k tomu je pot\u0159eba, abychom sly\u0161eli dob\u0159e nejen sebe, ale i melodie t\u011bch druh\u00fdch.<\/p>\n

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M\u011bjme se hezky! S l\u00e1skou Kalli<\/p>\n

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