{"id":415,"date":"2018-11-29T09:01:10","date_gmt":"2018-11-29T07:01:10","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/gocreations.info\/kalliopianthi\/?p=415"},"modified":"2020-03-16T16:03:16","modified_gmt":"2020-03-16T14:03:16","slug":"kalli-radi-19-o-rivalite-a-negativni-reakci","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/kalliopi-anthi.gr\/cs\/kalli-radi-19-o-rivalite-a-negativni-reakci\/","title":{"rendered":"Kalli rad\u00ed (19) &#8211; O rivalit\u011b a negativn\u00ed reakci v \u010desk\u00e9 komunit\u011b"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><em>Mil\u00e1 Kalli,<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>Zaj\u00edmal by m\u011b tv\u016fj n\u00e1zor. Hodn\u011bkr\u00e1t jsem prosila lidi tady na na\u0161ich str\u00e1nk\u00e1ch (\u010ce\u0161i v \u0158ecku), aby n\u00e1m p\u0159isp\u011bli n\u011bjak\u00fdm sv\u00fdm dotazem nebo p\u0159\u00edb\u011bhem, ale \u010dasto se potk\u00e1v\u00e1m se zam\u00edtavou odpov\u011bd\u00ed se slovy, \u017ee se tady zn\u00e1me a \u0158ecko je moc mal\u00e9 a \u017ee se necht\u011bj\u00ed ve\u0159ejn\u011b ukazovat nebo ps\u00e1t. P\u0159em\u00fd\u0161l\u00edm o tom, co za t\u00edm stoj\u00ed? Je to strach j\u00edt s k\u016f\u017e\u00ed na trh, strach z kritiky?<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>Taky m\u011b u\u017e n\u011bkolikr\u00e1t zarazila ta rivalita v \u010deskoslovensk\u00fdch komunit\u00e1ch (nejen tady v \u0158ecku, t\u0159eba na fb str\u00e1nk\u00e1ch \u010ce\u0161i a Slov\u00e1ci ve \u0160v\u00fdcarsku je to je\u0161t\u011b mnohem hor\u0161\u00ed) v cizin\u011b. Mysl\u00ed\u0161, \u017ee to m\u00e1 n\u011bjak\u00e9 logick\u00e9 vysv\u011btlen\u00ed? Vlastn\u011b spolu tyhle dv\u011b ot\u00e1zky mo\u017en\u00e1 docela souvisej\u00ed.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>D\u011bkuji za odpov\u011b\u010f. Pavla<\/em><\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-1225 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/kalliopi-anthi.gr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/20200316_142844-225x300.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"225\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"https:\/\/kalliopi-anthi.gr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/20200316_142844-225x300.jpg 225w, https:\/\/kalliopi-anthi.gr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/20200316_142844-768x1024.jpg 768w, https:\/\/kalliopi-anthi.gr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/20200316_142844.jpg 1536w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 225px) 100vw, 225px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Ahoj Pavlo,<\/p>\n<p>\u0158ekla bych, \u017ee je to p\u0159edev\u0161\u00edm strach z odm\u00edtnut\u00ed, z negativn\u00ed odezvy. Kdy\u017e n\u011bkdo nap\u00ed\u0161e n\u011bjak\u00fd sv\u016fj p\u0159\u00edb\u011bh a c\u00edt\u00ed, \u017ee pro\u017e\u00edv\u00e1 n\u011bco mimo\u0159\u00e1dn\u00e9ho nebo dok\u00e1zal n\u011bco obdivuhodn\u00e9ho, a n\u011bkdo jin\u00fd na to zareaguje zp\u016fsobem, kter\u00fd pisatele zklame nebo dokonce pon\u00ed\u017e\u00ed, tak to bol\u00ed. Kdy\u017e je n\u011bkdo v prost\u0159ed\u00ed, kde se c\u00edt\u00ed siln\u00fd a v bezpe\u010d\u00ed (nap\u0159\u00edklad ve sv\u00e9m rodn\u00e9m m\u011bst\u011b), tak takov\u00e9 zklam\u00e1n\u00ed odezn\u00ed rychle. Ale kdy\u017e \u017eijeme n\u011bkde, kde se c\u00edt\u00edme tak trochu ciz\u00ed, tak n\u00e1m mnohem v\u00edc z\u00e1le\u017e\u00ed na kladn\u00e9 odezv\u011b, p\u0159ijet\u00ed a pochopen\u00ed ostatn\u00edch lid\u00ed. P\u0159edev\u0161\u00edm, kdy\u017e ti \u201eostatn\u00ed lid\u00e9\u201c jsou \u010dleni \u201evlastn\u00edho klanu\u201c, v na\u0161em p\u0159\u00edpad\u011b \u010ce\u0161i nebo Slov\u00e1ci. (V r\u00e1mci zjednodu\u0161en\u00ed a plynulosti textu, nebudu d\u00e1l Slov\u00e1ky uv\u00e1d\u011bt zvl\u00e1\u0161\u0165, m\u00e1m je v mysli a v srdci spolu s \u010cechy).<\/p>\n<p>Kdy\u017e se \u010dlov\u011bk odst\u011bhuje do jin\u00e9 zem\u011b, mus\u00ed zapnout v\u0161echny s\u00edly, aby se nov\u00e9 situaci p\u0159izp\u016fsobil. N\u011bkte\u0159\u00ed lid\u00e9, sp\u00ed\u0161 v\u00fdjimky, to d\u011blaj\u00ed tak, \u017ee jakoby zapomenou nebo \u201ezap\u0159ou\u201c svoji minulost. Pln\u011b se soust\u0159ed\u00ed na to, aby zapadli do nov\u00e9ho prost\u0159ed\u00ed, aby se nau\u010dili \u0159e\u010d, na\u0161li si pr\u00e1ci a p\u0159\u00e1tele, aby se asimilovali. Tu\u0161\u00ed, \u017ee nostalgie po vlasti nebo vyhled\u00e1v\u00e1n\u00ed \u010desk\u00fdch p\u0159\u00e1tel by tento proces zpomalily, a proto v\u0161echnu svou energii zam\u011b\u0159\u00ed na to, aby vytvo\u0159ili novou identitu, v tomto p\u0159\u00edpad\u011b \u0159eckou. Uprav\u00ed si sv\u00e9 jm\u00e9no, aby zn\u011blo \u0159ecky, a z\u00e1hy jsou od domorodc\u016f t\u00e9m\u011b\u0159 k nerozezn\u00e1n\u00ed.<\/p>\n<p>V\u011bt\u0161ina lid\u00ed ale reaguje jinak. Nov\u00e9 prost\u0159ed\u00ed, jin\u00e9 zvyky a oby\u010deje, jin\u00e1 mentalita a jin\u00fd zp\u016fsob \u017eivota, p\u0159esto\u017ee n\u00e1m p\u0159ipad\u00e1 zaj\u00edmav\u00fd a p\u0159\u00edjemn\u00fd, pokud jsme v ciz\u00ed zemi na dovolen\u00e9, ve chv\u00edli, kdy se s n\u00edm setk\u00e1v\u00e1me \u201etrvale a napo\u0159\u00e1d\u201c n\u00e1m zpravidla za\u010dne vadit. Za\u010dneme se v\u00edc soust\u0159edit na rozd\u00edly, na to, jak\u00fd jsem <strong>j\u00e1<\/strong>, jak <strong>j\u00e1<\/strong> p\u0159em\u00fd\u0161l\u00edm, jak\u00e9 m\u00e1m <strong>j\u00e1<\/strong> zku\u0161enosti a jak by v\u011bci m\u011bly <strong>spr\u00e1vn\u011b<\/strong> b\u00fdt (podle m\u00e9ho n\u00e1zoru). \u010casto, ani\u017e si to uv\u011bdom\u00edme, n\u00e1s p\u0159epad\u00e1 touha, abychom zm\u011bnili prost\u0159ed\u00ed my a ne ono n\u00e1s. M\u00edsto abychom si dali za c\u00edl vytvo\u0159it novou identitu, za\u010dneme posilovat svoji p\u016fvodn\u00ed, \u010deskou.<\/p>\n<p>Nav\u00edc: to, jac\u00ed jsme, c\u00edt\u00edme intenzivn\u011bji v prost\u0159ed\u00ed, kter\u00e9 je odli\u0161n\u00e9 od n\u00e1s, ne\u017e v prost\u0159ed\u00ed zn\u00e1m\u00e9m. (Podobn\u011b jako blon\u010f\u00e1\u010dek v\u00edce vn\u00edm\u00e1 svoji sv\u011btlou ple\u0165 a vlasy mezi \u010dernou\u0161kama). Tak\u017ee se sna\u017e\u00edme b\u00fdt v\u00edc \u010cechy, ne\u017e bychom se sna\u017eili b\u00fdt,kdybychom z\u016fstali v \u010cech\u00e1ch. Odtud m\u016f\u017ee vznikat rivalita v komunit\u00e1ch, o kter\u00fdch p\u00ed\u0161e\u0161. Dv\u011b \u017eeny se t\u0159eba poh\u00e1daj\u00ed o spr\u00e1vn\u00fd recept na knedl\u00edky, ale v podstat\u011b nejde o to, kter\u00fd knedl\u00edk bude m\u00edt lep\u0161\u00ed chu\u0165 (o co\u017e by se mohly poh\u00e1dat dv\u011b kamar\u00e1dky t\u0159eba v Brn\u011b nebo v Praze), ale o to, kter\u00fd z nich je \u201espr\u00e1vn\u011bj\u0161\u00ed\u201c, neboli v\u00edc \u010desk\u00fd. Mysl\u00edm, \u017ee lid\u00e9 \u017eij\u00edc\u00ed v men\u0161in\u00e1ch v ciz\u00ed zemi, a kte\u0159\u00ed se br\u00e1n\u00ed tomu \u201esplynout\u201c, lp\u011bj\u00ed na sv\u00e9 \u201en\u00e1rodn\u00ed podstat\u011b\u201c. Proto reaguj\u00ed tak nep\u0159\u00e1telsky na v\u0161e, co se t\u0159eba jen nepatrn\u011b li\u0161\u00ed od jejich n\u00e1zoru. Maj\u00ed pocit, jako by je to bytostn\u011b ohro\u017eovalo, jako by to zpochyb\u0148ovalo je samotn\u00e9. Kdy\u017e by si to uv\u011bdomili, tak by se mohlo zachr\u00e1nit spousta vztah\u016f, kdy se dob\u0159\u00ed kamar\u00e1di rozh\u00e1dali na z\u00e1klad\u011b nep\u0159\u00edli\u0161 d\u016fle\u017eit\u00fdch z\u00e1minek. Nakonec, v\u0161ichni \u201ena\u0161inci v cizin\u011b\u201c jsou na stejn\u00e9 lodi, a jde o to, aby \u017eili sv\u016fj \u017eivot v co nejlep\u0161\u00ed pohod\u011b, tak, aby nelitovali sv\u00e9 volby p\u0159est\u011bhovat se.<\/p>\n<p>Dal\u0161\u00ed d\u016fvod, pro\u010d m\u016f\u017ee v komunit\u00e1ch vznikat rivalita a antagonistick\u00e9 vztahy je ten, \u017ee se tam setk\u00e1v\u00e1 cel\u00e1 \u0159ada lid\u00ed, kter\u00e9 spojuje pouze to, \u017ee poch\u00e1zej\u00ed ze stejn\u00e9 zem\u011b. Kdyby \u010dlov\u011bk z\u016fstal ve sv\u00e9m rodi\u0161ti, p\u0159\u00e1telil by se s lidmi, se kter\u00fdmi by m\u011bl podobn\u00e9 z\u00e1jmy nebo n\u00e1zor na sv\u011bt, nesna\u017eil by se st\u00fdkat i s t\u011bmi, kte\u0159\u00ed se k n\u011bmu nehod\u00ed. V cizin\u011b je to jinak. Dokud si n\u011bkdo nenajde \u0159eck\u00e9 p\u0159\u00e1tele, \u201emus\u00ed\u201c \u201ebr\u00e1t, co je\u201c. \u010casto se i nut\u00edme do vztah\u016f, kter\u00e9 pova\u017eujeme za spole\u010denskou povinnost, aby n\u00e1s neodsoudili lid\u00e9, na kter\u00fdch n\u00e1m t\u0159eba tolik nez\u00e1le\u017e\u00ed jako na osobnostech, ale kte\u0159\u00ed jsou v na\u0161\u00edch o\u010d\u00edch spojen\u00edm s \u201e\u010desk\u00fdm \u017eivlem\u201c.<\/p>\n<p>Co se t\u00fdk\u00e1 dotaz\u016f pro Kalli, v\u011b\u0159\u00edm, \u017ee to je trochu z jin\u00e9ho soudku. Mo\u017en\u00e1 to nen\u00ed strach j\u00edt s k\u016f\u017e\u00ed na trh, ale strach, zda v odpov\u011bdi nebude n\u011bco, co by mohlo b\u00fdt n\u011bjak\u00fdm zp\u016fsobem nep\u0159\u00edjemn\u00e9. Zpravidla, kdy\u017e se n\u00e1m neda\u0159\u00ed, tak si pot\u0159ebujeme jen tak post\u011b\u017eovat u n\u011bkoho, kdo n\u00e1m poskytne pochopen\u00ed a \u201en\u00e1ru\u010d sympatie\u201c, abychom se c\u00edtili l\u00edp. To je klasick\u00e1 pot\u0159eba p\u0159edev\u0161\u00edm u \u017een. V podstat\u011b ne\u010dek\u00e1me n\u011bjakou konkr\u00e9tn\u00ed odpov\u011b\u010f nebo \u0159e\u0161en\u00ed. To, co pot\u0159ebujeme, je mal\u00e9 pohlazen\u00ed. Jen\u017ee, kdy\u017e se n\u011bkdo obr\u00e1t\u00ed s n\u011bjak\u00fdm dotazem k \u010dlov\u011bku, kter\u00fd je v tom oboru profesion\u00e1l, odpov\u011b\u010f bude obsahovat i dal\u0161\u00ed prvky. Obecn\u00e9 informace, ot\u00e1zky k zamy\u0161len\u00ed, mo\u017en\u00e1 vysv\u011btlen\u00ed n\u011bjak\u00e9ho jevu atd., prvky, jejich\u017e smyslem je pomoci tazateli porozum\u011bt l\u00e9pe cel\u00e9 situaci a p\u0159ij\u00edt na to, jak\u00fdm zp\u016fsobem ji pom\u00e1h\u00e1 vytv\u00e1\u0159et. Tento nov\u00fd pohled na v\u011bc nen\u00ed \u201ezadarmo\u201c, nebo\u0165 vy\u017eaduje ochotu ke zm\u011bn\u011b a odvahu si p\u0159iznat vlastn\u00ed pod\u00edl zodpov\u011bdnosti. A my lid\u00e9 \u010dasto rad\u011bji trp\u00edme n\u011bjak\u00fdm probl\u00e9mem a ut\u011b\u0161ujeme se my\u0161lenkou, \u017ee za to nem\u016f\u017eeme my, \u017ee n\u011bkdo jin\u00fd nese vinu, ne\u017e abychom roz\u0161\u00ed\u0159ili sv\u016fj pohled a p\u0159iznali si, \u017ee v\u011bci mohou b\u00fdt i jinak.<\/p>\n<p>J\u00e1 si velmi v\u00e1\u017e\u00edm lid\u00ed, co p\u0159ich\u00e1zej\u00ed do poradny nebo na konstelace, nebo se se mnou rozd\u011bl\u00ed o sv\u016fj \u017eivotn\u00ed p\u0159\u00edb\u011bh a trable pomoc\u00ed dotazu. P\u0159edev\u0161\u00edm pro jejich odvahu a l\u00e1sku k sob\u011b, l\u00e1sku, kter\u00e1 se projevuje pr\u00e1v\u011b t\u00edm, \u017ee cht\u011bj\u00ed svoji situaci zlep\u0161it. C\u00edt\u00edm velkou \u00factu p\u0159ed lidmi, kter\u00fdm osud opravdu nalo\u017eil velk\u00e9 starosti, a oni p\u0159esto jdou d\u00e1l a sna\u017e\u00ed se vytvo\u0159it ve sv\u00e9m \u017eivot\u011b radost a smysl. Z m\u00e9ho pohledu nen\u00ed slabost pt\u00e1t se, co mi m\u016f\u017ee pomoct. Je to s\u00edla. Je to projeven\u00e1 l\u00e1ska k sob\u011b a k lidem okolo mne.<\/p>\n<p>Je\u0161t\u011b m\u011b napad\u00e1 jedno t\u00e9ma, a sice ot\u00e1zka negativn\u00edch koment\u00e1\u0159\u016f pod \u010dl\u00e1nky na www.cesivrecku.cz. N\u011bkdy se div\u00edm, jak moc agresivn\u011b a emotivn\u011b n\u011bkte\u0159\u00ed lid\u00e9 reaguj\u00ed. Tehdy souc\u00edt\u00edm s lidmi, kte\u0159\u00ed na\u0161li tu odvahu sv\u011b\u0159it se se sv\u00fdm probl\u00e9mem, a do\u010dkaj\u00ed se ne\u010dekan\u011b dal\u0161\u00edho \u00fatoku. Tak\u017ee bych tu m\u011bla jednu radu pro tazatele: Neberte to osobn\u011b! Zpravidla takov\u00fd \u00fatok nevypov\u00edd\u00e1 nic o osob\u011b, na kterou je nam\u00ed\u0159en, ale sp\u00ed\u0161e vypov\u00edd\u00e1 o osob\u011b \u00fato\u010dn\u00edka. A co o n\u00ed vypov\u00edd\u00e1? Mluv\u00ed jasn\u011b o n\u011bjak\u00e9m zran\u011bn\u00ed, o n\u011bjak\u00e9 bolesti. Asi jako kdy\u017e n\u011bkomu \u0161l\u00e1pnete na ku\u0159\u00ed oko, jeho reakce bude mnohem intenzivn\u011bj\u0161\u00ed, ne\u017e kdyby m\u011bl \u00fapln\u011b zdravou nohu.<\/p>\n<p>Lidsk\u00fd organismus je moudr\u00fd a nikdy nepl\u00fdtv\u00e1 emocemi. Zbyte\u010dn\u011b vydan\u00e1 emoce je pro n\u011bj ztr\u00e1ta energie. D\u00e1 se \u010dekat, \u017ee pokud m\u00e1 n\u011bkdo prudce emotivn\u00ed reakci na n\u011b\u010d\u00ed dotaz nebo na \u017eivotn\u00ed p\u0159\u00edb\u011bh jin\u00e9ho \u010dlov\u011bka, tak se ho to n\u011bjak\u00fdm zp\u016fsobem t\u00fdk\u00e1 osobn\u011b. Nap\u0159. kdy\u017e n\u011bkdo bou\u0159liv\u011b zareaguje na zm\u00ednku, \u017ee si n\u011bkdo jin\u00fd p\u0159eje odst\u011bhovat do \u0158ecka, a p\u00ed\u0161e o naivit\u011b a nezodpov\u011bdnosti, d\u00e1 se usoudit, \u017ee on s\u00e1m, nebo \u010dlov\u011bk jemu bl\u00edzk\u00fd na takov\u00e9 rozhodnut\u00ed \u201edoplatil\u201c a te\u010f ho lituje.<\/p>\n<p>Nen\u00ed nic \u0161patn\u00e9ho na tom, br\u00e1t v\u011bci osobn\u011b. Jsme osoby a tak m\u00e1me tendenci br\u00e1t v\u011bci osobn\u011b. \ud83d\ude42 Je v\u0161ak pot\u0159eba b\u00fdt si t\u00e9 \u201ep\u0159ehnan\u00e9 osobn\u00ed\u201c emoce v\u011bdom a zbyte\u010dn\u011b druh\u00fdm neubl\u00ed\u017eit. To tzv . ku\u0159\u00ed oko m\u016f\u017ee b\u00fdt n\u011bco z minulosti, v\u011bdom\u00e9ho nebo podv\u011bdom\u00e9ho. M\u016f\u017ee to b\u00fdt ale tak\u00e9 velmi aktu\u00e1ln\u00ed pocit. Abych nechodila daleko, uvedu jako p\u0159\u00edklad samu sebe, moj\u00ed reakci na koment\u00e1\u0159e ke \u010dl\u00e1nk\u016fm, kter\u00e9 jsem zve\u0159ejnila na str\u00e1nk\u00e1ch \u010ce\u0161i v \u0158ecku. J\u00e1 se tak\u00e9 dok\u00e1\u017eu roz\u010d\u00edlit, kdy\u017e m\u00e1m pocit, \u017ee n\u011bkdo \u201ema\u0159\u00ed\u201c moji snahu (nebo t\u0159eba snahu advok\u00e1tky) poskytnout n\u011bkomu podporu. Kdy\u017e n\u011bkdo nap\u00ed\u0161e ur\u00e1\u017eliv\u00fd koment\u00e1\u0159, m\u00e1m obavu, \u017ee odrad\u00ed lidi od toho, aby se rozd\u011blili o sv\u00e9 starosti a hledali \u0159e\u0161en\u00ed. A to mi vad\u00ed, nebo\u0165 je to p\u0159ek\u00e1\u017eka ve snaze lid\u00ed, co tyto str\u00e1nky v dobr\u00e9 v\u016fli zalo\u017eili. Na druh\u00e9 stran\u011b, nem\u00e1m pot\u0159ebu, aby lid\u00e9 se mnou souhlasili, proto \u0159adu koment\u00e1\u0159\u016f s opa\u010dn\u00fdm n\u00e1zorem neberu osobn\u011b, ale naopak m\u00e1m radost, \u017ee se lid\u00e9 k t\u00e9matu vyjad\u0159uj\u00ed.<\/p>\n<p>Nejde o to n\u011bkoho za jeho koment\u00e1\u0159 kritizovat. Moudr\u00fd \u010dlov\u011bk vyu\u017e\u00edv\u00e1 informace ve sv\u016fj prosp\u011bch. Kdy\u017e m\u00e1 n\u011bkdo neadekv\u00e1tn\u00ed reakci, je to informace od jeho podv\u011bdom\u00ed, sign\u00e1l, \u017ee n\u011bco nen\u00ed v po\u0159\u00e1dku. Pokud si to uv\u011bdom\u00ed, m\u016f\u017ee hledat p\u0159\u00ed\u010dinu a pomoci s\u00e1m sob\u011b. Pokud d\u00e1 p\u0159ednost tomu roz\u010dilovat se nad t\u00edm, jak\u00e9 volby ud\u011blali jin\u00ed lid\u00e9, je podobn\u00fd \u010dlov\u011bku, kter\u00fd ztratit kl\u00ed\u010de od bytu v zahrad\u011b, ale hled\u00e1 je na ulici pod lampou, proto\u017ee tam je v\u00edc sv\u011btla.<\/p>\n<p>Bu\u010fme v pohod\u011b a m\u011bjme se r\u00e1di! S l\u00e1skou, va\u0161e Kalli<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span class=\"icon_date\" title=\"datum publikov\u00e1n\u00ed\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.cesivrecku.cz\/kalli-radi-po-devatenacte\/\">http:\/\/www.cesivrecku.cz\/kalli-radi-po-devatenacte\/<\/a> 26.4.2015<\/span><span class=\"icon_comment\" title=\"po\u010det koment\u00e1\u0159\u016f\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.cesivrecku.cz\/kalli-radi-po-devatenacte\/#comments\">6 koment\u00e1\u0159\u016f<\/a><\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Dotazy m\u016f\u017eete pos\u00edlat na <a href=\"mailto:kalianth@yahoo.gr\">kalianth@yahoo.gr<\/a><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Mil\u00e1 Kalli, Zaj\u00edmal by m\u011b tv\u016fj n\u00e1zor. 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